i wanted to tell you guys about experiences i have been having lately, to see if maybe you guys can help me figure out what it all means.
Firstly, ever since my boyfriend and i got together, i have felt a presence in his house, of what i would describe is a large male (built with broad shoulders like a football player) who stands mostly in doorways, and seems to just be watching or guarding. now, because "he" hasnt ever really done anything but stand there, normally my impression would be that he's some sort of guardian, except the color of his aura, or the energy i see around him is a very dark grey or black, im not so sure.
does anyone get anything off this? see any impressions or maybe a clue as to who he is?
The ladies
Late at night, while in bed with my boyfriend and he's asleep, we get two visitors, both women, both very loving and nurturing, in that when they come and visit, they sit on my bf's side of the bed, and seem to stroke his face, or rub his back, etc etc and they seem to be talking to him in soothing tones, although i cant hear them. now, at first, i only saw them as one woman, but she would change in front of me, from being mid 50's or 60's, to someone much younger of either mid 20's to 30's, until i realized it wasnt one, but two!
Now, i kind of pieced together, from talking to my bf while hes awake, that these two ladies might be his grandmother and great aunt, who used to take care of them when he was a small boy. which would make sense, because of the love and tenderness i see when they are around him.
i should also mention, that when i see them, both have on an old fashioned nursing cap, with the little red cross on the front, and in life, both women were nurses at one point or another.
they are very protective of him, in that, while they are in the room, if i put my arm around him, whomever is sitting beside him will take my arm in her hand and try to move it, to the point where i can feel the temperature difference when they touch me, and will usually end up moving my arm because of the cold!
At first though, it seemed they didnt realize i was there, they never paid me any attention, never looked at me etc. but now, often times in bed, it feels like they have crawled up on the bed and are staring me in the face! which is very creepy!
when they first started visiting, i would hear the word/name rose whenever they were around, and so i assumed one of their names was rose, but he's now asked his family, and no one can remember anyone with a name of rose, so i assume its a nickname.
any one get anything from that? or have any senses off of it to share???
The noises
Last but not least, is the latest occurence, "the noises". it doesnt seem to be connected to the others i have mentioned, but it might be the ladies trying to get my attention.
Here's how it happens. my bf works early in the morning, so hes usually off to bed before me, because i work evenings, so im not tired when he needs to go to bed. so after the usual kisses and wishes of goodnight, he's off to bed, and i stay downstairs on the couch to watch tv. after a while (probably 30 mins to an hour,) noises will start up, usually comming from upstairs.
The best way i can describe them, is 1) footsteps, usually on the stairs, then in the upper landing, and then in the bedroom, where things seem to get kicked, or bumped into, because there are thumpy noises like that. sometimes i will hear what sounds ike knocking, but not like knocking on a door, as whatever it is seems to be knocking into things, or knocking on the floor above me.
i guess the noises would fit well under the name "things that go bump in the night" lol
the thing about them though, is that i KNOW its not my bf making them, because many nights after hearing bumps and whats sounded like things falling over, i will run upstairs to look, and he's still sound asleep in bed, and nothing seems to be knocked over.
Also i should mention that while there are some
RE: late night visitors
Hi Indigo Child,
Well firstly what can I say .... that is an extraordinary amount of supernatural activity going on around your boyfriend. You haven't mentioned what he thinks about it and if it bothers him or is he even aware of it? I would be interested to hear what he feels about it all.
With regard to the women and noises I really have no idea, but while reading the bit about the broad shouldered male in the doorway I felt a cold shiver run through me, and it is not pleasant. I do not know if my experience is similar to yours or not but I will tell you anyway. For many years I was aware of a shadowed figure hovering around doorways in my home. Although I found it a litle uncomfortable,it seemed harmless enough for a long time, just as if it was 'watching' me. I also suspected that it got into my bed once or twice. Then one night after a series of events - which I will not go into detail here - this dark shadow suddenly became a lot more powerful and 'attacked' me in full view of a member of my family. When I say attacked I wasnt physically flung about or anything but did have a horendous experience. Though many years have passed now, I never got over the fear of 'shadows by the door' especially as it re-appeared a few times after that, also again with witnesses to see it happening.
Thankfully, I have not had any negative experiences for a long time, but I would urge you to be VERY careful when there are such spirits around, if you do not know for certain why it is around.
Blessings!
RE: late night visitors
Hi Stardust!
My boyfriend knows about most of the activity, at least he knows about each of the energies ive met there, in fact he was the one who pointed out the big male that i described.
A few more things that i forgot in my first post about the male entity. during the first 6 months of my bf and i being together, we were in bed one night, and i felt the covers pull up, exposing our feet. Then, i feel a set of hands wrap around my ankle, and yank me down about a foot in the bed. I know it wasnt my bf or I who made me move, but i did feel that male energy strongly. when i first started staying with my bf, there was alot of energies, some thankfully have died.... er calmed down a little.
My boyfriend is scared of the energies, moreso the male, he doesnt seem to notice the women cause he's sleeping. He really doesnt know what to think of it all though, and kind of just ignores it, in a sense i think he turns some of his abilities (phsychic) off. i will though, see if i cant get him to talk about it though, tell him about me talking about it here, and see what he says.
it's funny you say the cold shiver about the male, because thats exactly what i do when he gets close enough. *thinks about what you said about getting attacked, and nods* one night i did feel like someone was sitting on my chest. i woke my boyfriend up out of the noises i was making, but he couldnt see it and i couldnt move.
i'm very uncomfortable around that one, and ive met many spirits over the years, how were you able to get rid of yours? or did you find out what yours wanted?
My boyfriend has also had a few psychic experinces growing up, moreso "creepy things that happened" rather then spirits, but a few for sure.
Something else that happens, but its happened to me before with other people in other places, is that in bed with my bf, his face sometimes changes, not as severe as possession, because he doesnt really seem to notice it, but i see it, and i dont think its just shadows. does anyone have any advice on how to deal with something like this?
IndyKid
RE: late night visitors
hello Indigo
The best thing is to ask what they want and is there any help you can give them, if your seeing them, then just ask them, its seem they are trying to get you attention (footballer like spirit) and doing well to get you to notice:D.
love and blessings
lightwinds
Wendy x
RE: late night visitors
INDIGOCHILD I would urge you DO NOT SPEAK TO THIS ENTITY OR LET IT KNOW THAT YOU HAVE ACKNOWLEDGED IT'S EXISTENCE.
The more you tell me about it, the more it sounds exactly like the entity I myself encountered. Especially when you were telling me about it on top of your chest. It did the same to me and to another person in my family and like you, I could not move or speak and felt like I just wanted to succumb to the pressure. I believe that by acknowledging it and communicating with it I gave it a power it did not have before that.
Here's what I did to eliminate its power:
1. We had two priests come to bless the house, and though this did not make it disappear completely it did help in getting it to back down a fair bit.
2. While being attacked by it, I turned to the catholicism as I was born and baptised a catholic. Holy water thrown at it and used around the house helped, as does having the lights on. It shrinks away from the light and seems more powerful in the dark. EVer since then I keep a lamp as close to my bed as I can no matter where I am, as it seemed to be able to 'follow' me to different locations.
3. Asserting YOUR power over it, by telling it sternly that this is YOUR space and it is not welcome, command it to leave, and be firm and stern. The more fear you show the more power it gains.
4. Use visualisation exercises to protect your energies, and heal your aura as it may be attracted to you because your aura needs to be renewed and healed and it sees you as 'vulnerable'. I see it as a kind of 'psychic vampire'.
I am concerned for you because I would not wish anyone to experience this horrible entity having seen it myself. It is not good for your boyfriend to be in denial as it sounds like he needs to protect himself more so than you, as he is the one attracting the spirits. It sounds as if he is like some sort of psychic beacon to them. Please please do something to protect yourselves, that is the best advice I can give you.
Blessings.
RE: late night visitors
Lightwinds sorry I did not mean my post to be disrespectful to your advice to ask the spirit what it wants. It's just that my own experience was so similar to Indigo-Childs that I am going by what worked and didn't work for me. Sorry!