Hi Everyone,
Now I'm not sure I'm in the right place but hoping i am. If not maybe someone could point me in the right direction;)
I went to a spiritual reader for the first time last night and what a wonderful experience it was. As a lot was told to me all good i must add, she asked who had a miscarriage now I've had 2 but she could only see the one. Anyway when i came home and went to bed all i could think about was my little girl that she could see (i never knew what i was having as the miscarriage was so early on).She also said that my little girl was at the toothbrushes in the house, (gosh im still so fascinated by what i was told especially from spiritual side) I was in bed with my 6 year old son and he was asleep beside me and I was going to sleep too , I could hear his breathing and then I heard this voice shout 'mammy'. Now I wasn't in the state of just falling into sleep as i was aware of my sons breathing beside me and i know it wasnt him but it sounded like him.
My question is Does anyone think it was my little girl or that my mind was so full of thoughts of her that i thought it may have been her! and if she were here she would be only be a year old or near enough. the voice sounded a little older than that too. I then thought i could see shadows or more like black cloud or smoke floating about but it was dark so my eyes were more than likely playing tricks on me then but i always thought i could see something more solid just at corner of my eye but when i turned to look it would move and would never be in my direct vision. So guys so sorry to bore you all with the details but anyone have any thoughts on that!! thanks in advance for any responses:confused:
Your child is still your child - that she passed over before her birth does not change that. She will remain close by you although she will be looked after by others. You are her mother and that was chosen by her.
A child grows slowly in our physical world but progress on the spirit side is not dictated by the same constraints as here. Children grow and mature more quickly.
I have no doubt that it was your daughter who drew even closer than she usually does. She would know that you were thinking of her so deeply and why. It's a frustratingly regular occurrence that one can't quite see the form of someone who draws so close and that's because you are not seeing with your eyes - turning your head for a different view will not change that but we all do it :)!
I hope you will be reassured by these words and now you know that she will always be close by. She will grow as all children grow and you will one day meet her.
You will know it is she because she will first present to you in the way you'd expect to see her - as a child. 
:hug: Thank you so much. I have been thinking alot about her now i suppose because of this meeting with the spiritual reader and what You said about her choosing me as her parent is funny as my sister has just finished reading a book called 'Angels' i think not sure though. and that is exactly what she said yesterday is that babies choose their parents. I must get the book off her would love to read it.
Your words were very reassuring and comforting so thank you so much and i look forward to meeting her. Its funny my son asked me today do you get to see animals that have died when you die. I said you do and he said good as he was referring to a cat that had died but had nothing to do with him!! however he did ask would he see dinosaurs!!!!!:eek:
so Mac thank you so much again. Healthy pages is such a wonderful place to come and we are always guaranteed a wonderful reply from the people involved well i have so far anyway.
It's been my pleasure to have helped you a little. 
I know this is an old topic but felt compelled to answer it.
I have had exactly the same as you,Ashers.
My grand daughter lost a child through miscarriage over five years ago.
I woke one night hearing a child's voice,shouting 'Hello' to me.
I 'saw' a small child aged about 3 to 4 years standing with his little hand out holding some unseen object.
I cannot prove it but can only think it was the great grandson I never saw.
So rest assured as Mac said,they are still around.
SHO
good answer mac...
thats the answer i would of given.asher....:)
I cannot prove it but can only think it was the great grandson I never saw.
I'm really glad that this gives you comfort, but have to say - it would not comfort me.
Still, we all have different beliefs.
Crowan, that sounds a bit sinister! I am interested to know why you decided to comment.
I can understand what you mean,Crowan but not sinister.
Strange but heartbreaking.
Aww Ashers, that sounds beautiful. I'd imagine it was your miscarried child. My mother was pregnant with twins and sadly one died off while in the womb and was reabsorbed by her body, my sister was born fine and healthy but I had a reading done once and this female girly spirit I felt every so often was actually my sister that died in the womb. There were some interesting details, I thought it was wonderful that she'd been guiding me
I can understand what you mean,Crowan but not sinister.
Strange but heartbreaking.
I think Kiga is right to question why I wrote what I did. This is not the place and I apologise for posting it.
But, Silverhoodedowl, I do not think that you do understand what I mean.
Crowan, I am the last person to suggest that you posted in the wrong place - as you know, I'm rather prone to that myself! 
I was probably reading more into your original post than was meant, as you seem to have done with mine!