Hi all, have posted here because this issue is about energy, and the fact that I am being drained !
I am having real problems coping with my marriage and being happy in it, because my husband, who I do love a lot, is unremittingly negative. He sees a problem in every situation and has no self esteem to speak of. He will always see the glass as half empty - well in fact, totally empty ! Even when it is half full !!! [&o]
He has been like this ever since we met, and years ago I was quite negative too. Since then I have gradually built my self confidence and awareness spiritually and have become more like the person I always wanted to be. This is fabulous, and I am positive and building my future with my thoughts - but - it is so so hard to keep being positive enough for two.
I feel despondent and drained. [&:]
Hubby has tried tapes, various self help things, even had hypnotherapy - but he admits himself that deep down he is almost 'comfortable' with the way he is. I feel as if I can't keep doing this for ever, and yet the thought of splitting up is terrifying.
I wondered if anyone else experiences this, and how you cope ? And does anyone with a foot in the spiritual realms have any insight into my situation ?
It has taken me months to pluck up the courage to post all this, as I feel as if I am betraying him in a way, but he doesn't read HP, and I really do need some feedback form you lovely peeps.
Thankyou so much, love you all dearly !
Ru xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
RE: Living with Negativity ........
Hiya Ru
I could of posted your message. I know just where you are coming from and you can email me privately if it helps.
RE: Living with Negativity ........
Just read your post, it seems that you need to ground yourself, and wear a protection crystal necklace.
To help ground you, go to a quiet place, where you husband is not around, and imagine that you have roots that grows down from your soles to the mother earth.
To find the crystal necklace put into your search engine askasha gems
I hope I have spelt her web address, sorry, can't help you further, but maybe another hp'er can help you. As they helped me find a Kunzite necklace, that I have been searching high and low for.
Good luck and sending you healing to help.
RE: Living with Negativity ........
Hi Ru
just wanted to say thanks for posting this, certainly given me a lot of "food for thought".
I'm totally lost for words right now as I've been really touched by all your replies, (kind of brings things home).
Leonardo & Jonjo,
I just loved your replies, (just where my husband comes from).
Thankyou XX
Ru, lots of love being sent to you.
Love, light & Blessing's to you all
Jackie
XXX
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RE: Living with Negativity ........
Hi all this is from my truths and is for me as much as any one else
Love all you are as you find out who you are in this plain and as the people that are brought in to your life to make you move through the human evolution as you evolve in to the oneness
All loved ones that are bought in to your life to walk as one for they show you what you be in the insecurities and fears that lie with you as you walk this plain as you walk separate from others in all you be you walk as one as they show you what be for the mass concessions of this planet
Walk in love as loved ones be perfect for you to move on to new places and experiences and reversals what you be to them in the way you relate to them as you see what lyes on them is what lye’s in you
Love all you be and other be for you to experience
In what they be for you you create love them for they show you the true you and walk in love and love all they be for you
For you can choose in love of who they are if you want to walk as one with them and in that walk with all that is in the moment
I must thank spirit for taking over and writhing this for I would not have put it so nicely
I must put a note here that walking as one is not meaning a family but in love and acceptance of them and love and acceptance of self and in that is the oneness of all
Walk in all that you are