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(@poppy-summer)
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I have noticed that sometimes you keep getting faced with the same thing until you have learnt what it is you were meant to learn.
I'm quite sensitive and I'm not going to lie but aggression in people does scare me. I know everyone gets aggressive - its an emotion but if you end up in relationships where you feel the person is dominating you or being aggressive does this mean that you are meant to fight back and stand up for yourself ??
I've heard that you have to face things and if you don't it will just keep re-occurring until you do it so you can learn the lesson.

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Crowan
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If you feel the person is dominating you or being aggressive, then you leave.
Maybe that's the lesson to learn (if there is one).
But bear in mind, those people who are most alarmed by 'aggression' are likely to see it when it isn't there.

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(@seashells)
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Hi! If you're picking the wrong people to be with then there may be a lesson in there to learn about why you are choosing people who don't treat you well. Low self esteem? A fear of having to commit if you're with a decent person? Those are two things that spring to mind but I bet you could meditate on it and come up with the reason x

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