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Just wanted some help please,
Im sure for those in the know this will be quite easy to understand.
My dream involvolved a man, who was not my husband. I could see the man very clearly, but he is know one i know. This man was involved in things that i would consider not nice, i.e. bank robbery or something of the such.
Well we got together and were going on a journey to somewhere??? We were travelling in the back of a vechilce and both very sleepy. Most of the time the man whom i feel i was having a relationship with held me tightly in his arms while we half slept. It was the most comfoting feeling and i really liked. But i was also aware that i was married and what i was doing was very wrong. There was nothing sexual between us but i felt very atrracted to this man.
For some reason he had no top on only a pair of black jeans???
On our journey i was getting more and more worried about what my husband would say, so we stopped somewhere to talk.
I felt very comfortalbe with this man, but he had strange looking hands, in the fact they didnt seem to fit with his muscular body. They were quite ugly hands and looked like mechanics hands with all the black grease under the nails. I remember thinking i dont want to get intimate with him with hands like that!
Well when we stopped we decided to go for a walk there were two paths to take, one straight along from where we were or a path down some steps. We took the path down the steps. There was a stream with stepping stones and as we tried to cross all these kind eel/snake things started to bob up out of the water, wriggling everywhere.
I told this guy i could no longer be with him, but he was so upset and said i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. I felt very quilty and could not go through with leaving him, but was thinking oh hell how am i going to get out of this, i want to go back to my husband.
I have had similiar dreams many times just recently, involving me have relationships with men but not in a sexual way then feel i cant get out of it and just want to get back to my husband.
Any ideas???
thanks Beth x
RE: Snakes in dream
Hi Beth,
Snakes can reprent the bringers of knowledge. Water can be the unconscious mind. To me you dream points into the direction that there is something to give a closer look at in your relationship with men and/ or your husband. I hope you do not mind me making a few more personal comments. Is your husband as supportive to you as you would like him to be? Wondering if your dream is not telling you that need more support?
Artemis
RE: Snakes in dream
Hi Artemis,
I have only just recently married, much to my husbands mothers annoyance and only in the last week or so she choose to show her annoyance by attacking me verbally. I found and still find the whole thing very upsetting.
Whilst my husband was with me listening to his mother attack me, he really said nothing in my defence and the whole experience has left me in tatters emotionally.
So maybe yes that could be it, but what is the dream telling me? Am i to communicate how unsupported i feel to my husband??
Because i have tried just recently so do i need to try again?? Or am i just being insecure?
Beth x
RE: Snakes in dream
Dear Beth,
Sorry to hear about a bumpy married start.
Am i to communicate how unsupported i feel to my husband??
Because i have tried just recently so do i need to try again??
These things are usually better talked about sooner rather than later... You need to find a way to make him understand how you feel. No matter rhow secure or insecure one feels, it is not nice to have mother-in-law attacking you and your other half silently submitting to "mum's will".
Feel free to e-mail or PM me if you would like to follow things mor ein a less exposed way than the forum.
Artemis