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(Im not sure if this is the correct place to post for advice about dreams, so I apologise if it should be somewhere else)
Over the past week or so, i've had nightmares about my H dying[sm=cry.gif]
They are very detailed regarding my feelings/how upset I am dealing with the aftermath, to the point where I am physically upset when I wake up and not just for a short period of time. This is having a real effect on my life.
Two prominent male figures in my life have died in the last 2 years and I know these dreams will be linked with my fears of having to deal with any deaths which may happen in the future.
Obviously, I dont want these dreams to continue. Does anyone have any suggestions please?
RE: Horrible Nightmares
Hi Magic Acid, I feel that your subconscious is bringing this to your attention, hence the repetitive dreams.
Can I ask, have you dealt with your grief?
Grief is a natural process and can take some years to work through - if you are still dealing with grief, may I recommend you take the Bach flower remedy called "Star of Bethlehem" which works very well for grief issues and takes the edge of the sadness/sorrow and pain you will be experiencing.
Love
Rosi x
RE: Horrible Nightmares
I'm not sure Rosi. I know I do still get upset sometimes.
One of the people who died was FIL. We are heavily involved with MIL who is lost without him and gets upset regularly (understandably), but my H feels a great sense of responsibility to MIL (naturally) and always says how upset she alwaysis.
Maybe this has something to do with it. I cant 'move on' because MIL isnt able to, so therefor H cant either?
I reallydont know, its a difficult situation. Im not sure if I/we will ever fully deal with our grief.
Thanks for your reply.
RE: Horrible Nightmares
Forgot to say!!!!! Thank you for the recommendation. I will look into buying this.