Hello there Silvermist,
Whilst yes Wicca states that you should "harm none", that includes yourself, if these people are causing you health issues in their bullying you are allowed to protect yourself in anyway you feel is appropriate. From your messages you have tried many ways of dealing with this situation by protecting yourself.
They may be jealous of your confidence and that is why they are trying to bring you down. Try to ignore their comments and continue to shine. Be the best person that you can be.
As this has happened before, maybe there is something for you to learn which is why it is repeating a pattern. What do you need to learn?
Stay strong Silvermist.
Blessed be
Just a thought........
Thank you everyone for your replies which have helped a great deal.
You have given me the strength to look at this more objectively: how i need to learn and address certain aspects of myself, what I may have done that cause people to behave like this and how I can improve from these experiences.
I intend to ignore the 3 people concerned, be strong and be the best I can be to myself and others. This is also what I will do should it ever happen again. Hopefully it won't because I have learned from your posts that only i am in control of my choices and reactions.
Also to appreciate the positive aspects of my life rather than dwell on the negative. In particular close family and friends who love and support me unconditionally. I am blessed.
I'm sorry I haven't quoted individually in this message but my posting skills are rather basic :confused: I hope to improve.
Thank you all once again.
Bright blessings, Silvermist x
Groundedness and Protection
There are 3 negative people in my life, (not related to me), who verbally bully, hurt and upset me so much it's making me feel ill. I have asked what the problem is but their usual answer is, "YOU tell me". I have tried to deflect them by imagining a mirror sending back their hurtful behaviour. I have imagined a thick pane of glass between me and them. I have tried to envelop myself in protective white light but nothing helps.
Of course I will not curse them as it goes against my beliefs and the law of Wicca but I feel so aggrieved I just want to lash out.
Could i cast a spell to remove them from my life but in a nice way?!
Has anyone please got any advice?
Bright blessings, Silvermist x
[COLOR="Sienna"][COLOR="DarkGreen"][COLOR="Indigo"]Why do you allow others such access into your space?
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