RE: help!psychic vampire.
i cannot believe i am talking like this, i feel guilty as talking like this about someone else my wife!!!!!!!!!!!!!,not like me !
sometimes you think of the good times and then feel bad about saying all this.
Hi Andre.
Feeling guilty is something we all feel at some point in our lives.
But some great advice was given to me by a very dear friend.
We are not humans living a spiritual life, but mearly spirits living a human life, therefore your feelings are compleatly human, and compleatly normal. Accept that you feel that way, and that what you feel is perfectly normal, and then let your feelings go.
I hope everything works out the way you want.
Don't give up your beliefs in order to keep someone happy.
Hails xx [sm=hug.gif]
RE: help!psychic vampire.
hi x_shining_star_x
thanks for your wise words ,i see your point, i dont talk like this to my wife in relation with words like energies and psychic vampireto be honest it does sound a bit wrong doesnt it
but i was sort of speaking in metaphysical terms,i never talk like this,to her,sorry how i came across.
the pms thing i thought may be a BIG issue ,and i certainly wasnt blaming the way my wife is on pms, i was tyring to put across that when pms does arrive things hot up a little more !
but i do feel that a lot of men ,i would assume mostly a lot older men find it difficult to cope with the changing moods as this was not discussed as much in past years.
therefore men used to suffer in a way that they could not understand what was happening to their wives.
oh ! dear !i think i have may have led myself into something,not good territory
,im saying this all in good sense,but i feel that its a lot more common than people think about the possible worry and emotions men go through when pms strikes.
NOW please understand i am not saying its all men ! NO!
MEN HELP![sm=jump3.gif]
(help !somebody save me!)[sm=cry.gif]
i know its very difficult for women too as iexperienced with my wife.
(please men jump in here !,say something!, i am going to get battered!)
but err i think id better stop.
just wanted to make a point thats all!!!!!!!!!
go easy on me[sm=sad2.gif]
thanks
god bless
andre[sm=FIFangel.gif]
RE: help!psychic vampire.
hi hails
thank you for thoses kind words.
its difficult to explain, but im hoping that all with see the overall picture.
i think i have led myself into a sensitive topic from now from nowwhere,[sm=nuts.gif]
god bless
andre[sm=FIFangel.gif]
RE: help!psychic vampire.
ORIGINAL: pthree
please men jump in here !,say something!, i am going to get battered!
LOL! Calm down 😉
I know it is a problem for some couples - I know a couple who the woman has been told she has a hormone imbalance, which they think affects her moods, which then adds/causes arguments etc. Even though she knows it's there & that it's an issue, it still winds her up when her husband shouts her down in arguments & puts her emotions/responses down to her uncontrollable messed up hormones. When he does, their argument escalates. It's a tricky situation.
I have had it myself [&:]in the past, when I logically *know* my emotions etc are totally *not* logical, but even knowing that doesn't stop you feeling it. The key is for the femaleto notice when it is PMS & when it's not. It's quite difficult to do but when you realise it*is* PMS, you just need to accept whateverit is your thinking/feeling (not tell yourself your wrong for feeling that way) & know that it will pass! Once one has done this, it does help when it comes to arguments with a partner etc. A few times my partner has said to me "are you ok, what's wrong with you, is it that time of the month?" which has resulted in two things - either me blowing a fuse [:@] as I feel he has just invalidated my whole beingin one sentence, or me stopping & thinking for a second & realising "oh yeah maybe he's right. Oopsie!" He's a brave man to say it in the first place anyway LOL
Yes I understand it is difficult for some men, yourself included,with women who get bad PMS & even though I would suggest talking about it with her, I have no idea HOW you would do that without getting the [:@]response I explained above. I suppose it would make sense to discuss it when a) it's NOT that time of the month(!)& b) when your having an enjoyable non-argumentative time together. Asking her *if* she thinks she is affected by it would be a better way to approach it than stating you think she *is* affected by it. If she says no to that question though, stating it may be the only way to get it discussed.
Anyway, good luck [sm=hug.gif]
Your lucky you caught me on a good non PMS day or I'd be [sm=devil-smiley-002.gif](LOL Kidding!!!)
Love & Light
SS
x
RE: help!psychic vampire.
The more you become Divine Love in manifestation on the earth plane the less others can drain you. You simply vibrate at such a high level of consciousness and on a different plane of existence. Its like angels can reach down to us and we can rise up but we don't need to go there if we choose not too!
Many people take others for granted and it is only when they realise what there is to loose; that they can wake up, I would make my case very clear indeed as discussed before and not wait until it is too late. Time for you to exert your maleness and influence the situation for the benefit of all.
Let love guide and wisdom support you.
Divine Love