Thanks Tashanie, I'm a bit late replying as I've been out and about enjoying the sun 🙂 So if I understand correctly it is about making a constant effort to be positive about yourself. I can see why a lot of practice would be needed because you could be replacing habits of a lifetime.
Yes but there is more to it than that. There are lots of visualisation techniques you can use to help you change your image of yourself from negative to positive. Try reading Change your life in 7 days Or the Art of Brilliance. Thats how I got started (and trust me I was in negative victim mode BIG TIME. Within3 months I was off anti-depressants and have never gone back on them!)
Please consider buying Louise Hays Dvd "You can heal your life". If you can't afford life coaching 🙂 buy a book on becoming a life coach 🙂 Coach yourself. Be your best friend. Be your best Mother. Be your cheering squad.
A relationship is not a marriage and even marriages fail. And fail is not a good word for it really. Come to an end is maybe a better word.
I am not especially good with relationships with men. So I think of them as adventures, journeys or learning experiences.
There are too many reasons as to why people are attracted to each other and most of them are the wrong ones. Or better said "self defeating reasons. But like I said I'm not really good at this type of relationship so my only solution is to only be in it if I am being treated well. And if not... I AM GONE! Period. Life is too short. And I see all relationships as temporary untill the both of us can see no other vision in life but to be together.
From everything that you said, life coaching would be a great too I can recommend. It helps you talk about things on your mind and set goals to improve your life. I used a company called Self Bx for life coaching and it helped me so much. It's a site for women where they focus on helping you feel strong, happy and better about your life. It sounds like they would be a good fit for you! Honestly, I would recommend life coaching to anyone who wants to do better than they're already doing in life and work on their relationships. Like I said, I would give Self Bx a try!