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blundell07
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Hi,

After endless arcticles and forums on the Internet I have decided to build up the courage and ask for help.

I am a 21 year old male, with you guessed, a very low sex drive! I have been with my girlfriend for over a year now, (the only person who I have ever slept with) who I love and don't want to lose.

I have always had a problem with gaining an erection when we are kissing and in bed. I can achieve an erection (sometimes) but for every 5 times we get a little frisky we only have sex once, due to my "problem". The situation is worse then ever and it's been over 7 weeks since we had any intercourse (due to me). At first a thought this was nervous because I was a virgin. I have looked over a few sites and found I match a few symptoms for low levels of testosterone.

  • Depression (only a little)
  • Problems with concentration and memory or other cognitive and intellectual functions
  • Low sex drive

It's not because I dont enjoy sex I really enjoy it, and love feeling close to my girlfriend. It's got to a a point were I am willing to try anything and eveything.

I just want to make my girlfiend feel half as special as she makes me feel. She has stuck by me all the way and is willing to do anything to help.

Thanks for any help, its much appreciated!

-Blundell07

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Lynora
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You really need to see a professional for help with this - even though it seems daft, any family planning clinic will be able to direct you to methods of improving your situation.

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myarka
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I agree with Jabba that you need to get professional help.

I think the worry and stress of the situation has taken over, and it's probably the anxiety that's actually causing the problem, so the more you worry the worse it gets.

Go and get help like Jabbe suggested, but in the meantime, just kiss and cuddle with your girlfriend with no expectation of sex so you can chill and relax.

Best of luck,

Myarka.

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jamesk
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Yes, get some professional advice. Sometimes this happens due to stress, other causes could be diet, nutrition - you need to ensure that you are giving your body all the right nutrients and water. It could be due to toxicity from substances that you are sensitive to - in which case a detox program would help.

Also, "low" is a judgement that we make, what's low for you might be high for someone else - it may be your body's natural state, in which case I would just accept the body as it is.

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rubywarner
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Have you considered suppelements?

I found this one out, Tribulus Terrestis. The description explains it better than i could, so I'll just quote it.

  • Health Benefits: Boosts your testosterone levels. Used by athletes, bodybuilders and for help with impotence.
  • Health Notes: Some active components are available only in the root of the tribulus plant. Don't settle for inferior tribulus products made from fruit only.

It might make more sense if you look at their website, .
Hope this helps.

Ruby.


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pappu060
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I ve get married my gf last 6 month ago. I cant proper sex with my wife. Main problem is my panis became 4.5 inch big than normal stages. As per normal stages it was 1 inch looks like child penis.My wife is worried n I m getting shameful to my wife. So please help what I can do. I need to go any physician or any problem in testosterone? Mean while another problem in quick ejaculation.Plz help or I ll loose my wife.

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Steve Indigo
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Hi

Just a word about herbs and testosterone.

Some herbs can help with helping the body produce more testosterone. A couple of Ayurvedic herbs you may wish to have a look at are Gokshura & Kapikachhu, and you may also find it intresting to look at Epimedium which is from China.

Best of luck

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ceefirr
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Have you tried EFT for this regaurds ceefirr

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jamesk
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..Main problem is my panis became 4.5 inch big than normal stages. As per normal stages it was 1 inch looks like child penis.My wife is worried n I m getting shameful to my wife.

I didn't understand this....

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Herbal-D
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Building on what Steve said both Ginseng and Ashwagandha can be used to raise male libido

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alks123
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The problems of reproductive system may be solved by good
Su-jok specialist by acupuncture on right hand middle finger
joints.
In fact, the schemes may be simple enough for one to do acupuncture or another work on points himself.

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biggazfromlincoln
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a little known secret is celery, used by adult film stars................... dont ask how I know.
BGFL

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louisphilip91
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Those peoples suffers have low sex drive and they must be used Super P Force Pills and get rid to ED and Other sexual problems.

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