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Hi Clare
I wanted to start this so we can all leave get well soon messages in the same place.
I for one am finding it very quiet without you. I hope everything went ok and you are recovering from what is a massive op, trust me I know how you feel but it will get better slowly.
Take care, miss you,
Love Wend xxxx
I can't get the image to turn - but my assistant and I offer 'tandem treatments'!!!
Get well soon Clare xxx
hi clare, how did it go then?, really well we all hope!:grouphug:.
best wishes, daveyam. xxx
Best wishes, Clare. Hope you feel well soon
From me too, hope everything is good and pain free and you are recovering well
great photo!
great photo jabba the hut, that should cheer clare up!:D. how on earth did he hold that glove without it goin down?,lol.:)
kind regards, daveyam
great photo jabba the hut, that should cheer clare up!:D. how on earth did he hold that glove without it goin down?,lol.:) kind regards, daveyam
This is Jess - she can keep a glove going for days, carrying it around by the knot for hours, and is visibly upset if it should deflate, so I have to blow another one up for her! She is the same with balloons!
Hi guys at the moment im not up to posting too all I can say that the op took that long as I have blisters all over my chin very nasty and sores down the rest of my body im in a lot of pain surgeon said it took ages their was a lot of scar tissue and other complicated things it took 11 hours and ive had different people coming about my sores and they took pics thanks for your concern ill post tomorrow xxx
Thinking of you, hope you manage to get some sleep. Take it easy (not that you have much choice).xxx
Hi Clare - I posted on the other thread - I repeat my thoughts are with you. Sending Love, Light and Healing with big cyber hugs too.
hope you get some relief soon.
God, your a drama queen!
Will you hurry up and get home to do the housework woman!!!
:D:D:D:D:D:D:p:p:p:p:p:p
You know i dont mean it! So sorry to hear of the complications. I sure hope you return to the beautiful young lady that we all know you to be! Love and best wishes from me! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi Clare
You poor love. Hope you are feeling better today. You have us all thinking of you.
Sorry not to have been on here earlier but we lost internet contact - now we are back at sea and on our way home it has come back.
Angelaxx
Hi Clare,
I hope you are feeling a little better today, I would say a lot but know its slow progress. Are you allergic to plasters? I am and they have to be very careful what they use as I blister and I wondered if that's what's caused the probs on your face. You defo didn't need that on top of such a long surgery.
I am sending you a big but gentle cuddle and hope you are feeling more like your old self very soon.
Miss you, take care
Love Wend xxxx
hi clare, posted on other thread, but i will say again, its great to hear from you:). 11 hours is a really long time, no wonder you were so chronic with pain.
. best wishes,daveyam.xxx
Hi guys well all i can say is that I must be the one of the unluckiest person when it comes to back surgery yes it was 11 hours my chin may be scared now I feel like I've been ib the sun all day I have positioning sores my surgeon said my nerves was that badly damaged that they were bleeding and tons of scar tissue that he had to get through I didn't think you could have that amount of scar tissue seen as though my last op wasn't that long ago also if you remember I said I was getting left sided pain but mri only shown right sided compression well I had loads of disc compression on left my left side nerve was just as badly damaged he said if I had a mri scan standing up position it would have shown it. My right leg is doing good but my left leg pain is worse then pre op the xrays was ok but may need ct scan. Im also lying on a special mattress that vibrates cos od sores and im getting blisters near wound I just wish I could send u all a pic of my chin I only seen it yesterday they would not show it to me im not very mobile left leg very numb plus pain I have to buzz and two nurses need to take me to toilet im in my own room my surgeon told me he didn't want ne on ward with too many people cos risk of infection? Im in a private room not sure if I mentioned that someone came and took pics of my sores and chin im praying this is the last of it ive had enough being kept in till at least the end of next week oh lm seing a pic of my xray tomorrow ill post tomorrow love clare oh this mattress vibrates which will do my head in xxx
Im sorry just realised what I said about beinh unlucky I know there's others as well xxx love as always clare just wish I was in my own bed
Hi Clare
Just to let you know we are thinking of you at this very difficult time. Let's hope this sorts things out for you and that you come through this so you can start to lead a more normal life. I can certainly understand that being on a vibrating matress does your head in - it would do mine too :eek:.
Big, but vey gentle cyber hugs, Love Light and Healing to you, and wishing you all the very best.
Clare
Peter and I are horrified by what you are going through. I am taking a slight positive in that you have managed two posts on here today but nevertheless know you are in great pain and discomfort.
As you see we are back on dry land and arrived home about an hour ago. Sorry not many posts over last fortnight but we have been in and out of internet usage and what there was has in the main been very slow indeed.
What would you like me to do. Peter is still very happy to drive me over tomorrow, but I really want you to be quite honest and say what you want. Will a visitor help to pass the time or is it all a bit of a drag. I leave it totally to you.
With love
Angela xxx
Hi angela id love you to come only if you feel up to it im on ward n7 room 8 visiting hours are from 2-3 then6:30-8 my stupid left leg is worse than pre op having ct scan for that but right side is wonderful it was a good job I had a complex surgeon working on me from what he said there's no wonder why I was in so much pain. Anyway I hope you both enjoyed your trip and that you weren't in too much pain love clare xx
Hi Clare
That is fine. Will see you at 2 pm tomorrow. Peter will bring me up to ward in my wheelchair - too far for me to walk and then he will go and have a read in the café. Look forward to seeing you.
I am in a fair amount of discomfort today after the car ride but hopefully a good soak in the bath, my wheatbags and my own bed will help.
I have got back to a letter from Mr Suroor's secretary that I have been listed for op mid August- early September.
Angela xx
Hi angela would it be rude of me to ask if you could come on Tuesday my brother and sister are coming tomorrow at that time my brother has just come over from Ireland or you can stillccome I don't mind or come at the later visiting so sorry but like I said I don't mind either way
No problem. See you Tuesday
Angela
Hi angela I was wondering if you could either come down this evening or Tuesdays as my brother who has come from Ireland will be here tomorrow at 2 butits fine if u still want to as im sure he wouldn't mind sorry for being a nuisance tonight is free from 7 and im sorry you're in pain love clare
Hi angela no idea why I written that again:( but the offer still stands if you want to come tonight if not see you Tuesday
Hi Clare
To be honest evening is not my best time at all painwise. I will comeTuesday afternoon at 2 pm but if for any reason family are coming and you want to cancel this I will not be at all offended.
love, Angela
No angela tuesday fine sorry about your pain. I can't believe about my left side sciatica my right is doung great you may get a shock when you see me because of my face it should be a lot better by then hopefully xxx look forward to seeing you
Hi Clare
Well I am making a day of it tomorrow at hospital. I have had a letter giving my pre op check on 25th July. Unfortunately I it is one of the two days I cannot manage in July. I phoned them this morning to explain and asked was there any chance of a cancellation. She said if you come at 8 am tomorrow morning yes. So I am coming!!! Want this earlier rather than later before his operating list gets full. After the check - I love the bit about it may take a long time and you may wish to bring sandwiches routine, we are going off to do something else we need to do in the area before returning to visit you.
See you then. Angela
That's great news angela fancy it being on the same day of visit. This hospital will be my home for a while I'll explain to you when you come to see me im in my own room apparently surgeon orders. Pre op is a pain it can take a while I had one done today in my hospital bed on my annoying mattress. See you tomorrow love clare xx
Hi Clare
Hope things have picked up a bit! Missed ya being on here!
Sending you all my love and best wishes for a speedy recovery!
Keep in touch hun. x
Rob x
Hi Clare
How are you getting on today Hun? I do hope things are improving for you. How is the sciatic pain now? Have you had to use the Zimmer frame, or granny wheels my kids called it, to get to the loo? It was a good idea for support but the nurses kept moving away from the side of my bed, pretty pointless if you have to walk to the end of the bed without it :p
Things here are ok, my back is feeling a bit better after my trek to Bath. My youngest is going on holiday today, only to Poole, but I am sooooo jealous. I did ask if I could tag along with him and his girlfriend but they didn't seem to keen - I wonder why
Anyway please get better soon as I miss our chats.
Take care,
Love Wend xxxxx