Just wanted to say I think you handled the situation very well:)
At this moment I have a woman coming to me that I am uncomfortable with.
She is late fifities and said her husband died five years ago. I have no way of finding out of waht she has ever told me is true.
I have massaged her about four times now and for the last two she has, as I have been massaging the front of her legs (I usually start on back of legs, back then turn over to front) has lifted her arms to rub her face or move her hair leaving her breasts exposed while doing so and then also not readjusting the towel when she puts her arms down.
The first time she did this I felt uncomfortable and I discreetly placed the towels back over her boobs.
This most recent time tho' she did exactly the same thing as before and I thought "hhhhhmmmmm, whats going on here"?.
Again I quietly replaced the towel....but as I returned to the room after getting a glass of water for her......just as I knocked the door...I heard a noise which was either a loud yawning noise or someone having an o******m.
She is booked in again...if the same thing happens again next time I will be instructing the reception staff to make it difficult for her to book me again e.g no appointments available for X amount of time.
So, it aint just the opposite sex we need to be wary of.
Patchouli
Oh goodness Patchouli!
I don't blame you for feeling uncomfortable. I understand how you feel - in my eyes, boobs on show are fine, but when someone reveals them in a calculated way (just like the guy's buttocks) it just gives everything a weird hue.
You're definately justified in not wanting to see her again - I certainly now believe clients don't always have to say or do anything in particular, but if we have a certain inkling, we should definately listen to it. If we don't feel 100% comfortable with our clients, I don't think we can give them a 100% treatment.
ps. Thank you LuckyG for your kind words x
Yes I don't have a problem with nakedness in general. I have quite a few ladies who gaily strip off in front of me but I don't feel uncomfortable as I know they are just getting ready for the massage.
It's just with this person I know in my gut that she is getting more than just the massage pleasure and have deliberately cut short at the top of the legs because of this but she also says things in a voice that feels creepy too.
I think you are right about if you don't feel comfortable with a client not to do them.
Patchouli