RE: I Am Free!
To those of you who have been sincerein your responses I offer you my heartfelt appreciation.Thank you.
To Silverbroomrider I offer you my empathy [sm=1kis.gif]
While I continue to enjoy my newfound freedom and positivity, I do feel genuinepity for my former abuser because due to their delusions it is unlikely that they will ever be able to relinquish their destructive behaviour.
While they have their delusions I have my liberty and a clear conscience and nothing they say or do can ever alter that.
I continue to be free:)
RE: I Am Free!
[sm=1kis.gif]Thank you I am not sure what to say or maybe how to say it but I wish you every happiness because you deserve it you must feel so light and happy now remember the day you realised you were free was “The first day of the rest of your live”, and enjoy your live.[sm=1kis.gif]
RE: I Am Free!
Siverbroomrider!
Heartfelt thanks for your most recent message!
Yes, my newfound freedom is exquisite but I have not lost sight of you and others like you who, like I once was, are currently still stuck.
I hope that knowing that I am out here and thinking about you goes some way to making your challenging circumstances more bearable.
With you in thought![sm=1kis.gif]
RE: I Am Free!
Breaking free from an abuser can be extremely difficult.
It takes a long time to recover from living under the control of someone and leaving is just the first big step. It can take many months or even years to learn how to be yourself again. Sometimes we have no belief in ourselves or our capabilities because we have been told for such a long time that we are just not good enough.
You will find that the true 'you' has been hidden and it will be an amazing journey to reveal yourself again. Just imagine yourself as the beautiful butterfly emerging from it's cocoon.....your soul is free to soar. Do all the things you love to do most and surround yourself with the people that love you...
Much Love xxx
RE: I Am Free!
Good for you! 😉
I have also been though similar circumstances where an ex was mentally and physically abusive towards me for a period of time. It takes time and strength to break free and you have done it!! Well done xx [sm=hug.gif]
I now have a wonderful partner who is completely different and above all he is understanding, gentle and supportive. Life is much better now and will be for you too! I feel very pleased for you and wish you all the love [sm=love-smiley-009.gif], support and hugs for the future.
This is the start of the rest of your life! [sm=nature-smiley-008.gif]