RE: For my husband - your prayers please
Bless you Jill.
You have done the right thing honey. Even though it is tough.
Try not to feel guilty about this honey. It isn't worth risking your life. Your husband will receive the help he needs.
Sending healing thoughts, and love to you both.
Hugs [sm=hug.gif]
Hails xxx
RE: For my husband - your prayers please
Hi, Thank you all so much for your support. Your good thoughts and healing have definitely been working with me. I have had a strength and determination that I have never felt before and I have managed to do the things I have needed to do without folding, so a BIG thank you again.
However, yesterday morning Steve turned up in one hateful mood. I was so shocked to see him. Apparantly, although he had been sectioned for 72 hours, he was assessed by doctors and they agreed that he was not a risk to himself or anyone else so he is allowed out during the day. He went away and then kept phoning in tears and all sorts, but by the evening he had become calm and relatively normal. However, he has never once asked how I am or mentioned my injuries at all.
I have been to the doctors today and I have twisted ligaments in my neck, grinding noises and rubbing sensations at the top of my spine due to whiplash, the tubes are bruised and swollen and breathing is restricted, in addition to all my other injuries(nothing major though and all injuries will go away eventually, so I am lucky). He phoned me this morning and asked where I had been and I told him I had beento see the doctor remy injuries, he said nothing and changed the subject. I KNOW he is blanking this out dueto his illness, the real Steve would be mortified. The doctors at the hospital do not know what has happened, they believe he was sectioned due to threats by him of suicide and they will not talk to me because Steve will not give his consent. How is he ever going toget better if no-one knows whats happening. He has given his consent for them to talk to his sister, and they have liaised with her, but she has only seen himtwice in a year. She knows nothing about what has been going on with him in the last few months. I am in despair and don't know what to do. He has told me he will be home on Sunday. He told me yesterday that the doctors said he is not ill at all, his biggest problem is that he has a wicked, manipulating wife who twists and invents things. My, how that hurt. I have been going over and over in my head to see if it could be true, if it could all be me, but I really don't beleive it is and my friends have all said that its not me, he is just really ill. They have all witnessed his erratic, unpredictable nature.
Please, please, may I ask you to continue to send positivity, healing and good thoughts to Steve. He is the best person I have ever met and he doesn't deserve to be this way. I just want him to be well. Please remember him in your prayers. I know, without doubt, that all the healing and kind thoughts from all you angels out there can do more than anything to help him on the road to recovery. Thank you again. I am indebted to you all. Jill x
RE: For my husband - your prayers please
My heart goes out to both of you Jill, truly it does. What you did was definitely for the best-for both of you. I'm not sure I quiteunderstand where the doctors are coming from, telling Steve such things though..................
I just wish much healing, courage, calm and fortitude for both of you in this situation. Big hugs for you too xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Love, light and blessings,
Guin x
RE: For my husband - your prayers please
Dear Jill,
How are things today? I am concerned that we haven't heard from you for four days.
With love and light,
Sue.