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For my husband - your prayers please

Angelwitch · 2007-02-07T02:02:00Z

Hi everyone, Please may Iaskyouto send some healing energy and light to my husband, Steve, and to remember us in your prayers today, if possible.I am so desperate for help. This may be long winded, please bear with me. Stevehas been mentally unwell for a very long time and has been progressivelygetting worse. He has been under the care of the local mental health team since last year, has attempted suicide twice,and his doctor has wanted to "section" him under the mental health act on more than one occasion, but subequently choseanother route because Steveis so scared of being "locked up".Itall stems from abuse in his childhood and years of subsequent self-harm. He can be completely normal and calm and then something switches in him, and within minutes he becomes abusive,violent and irrational. The abuse and aggression is normally directed towards me or anyone else who crosses his path. The physical violenceis normally towards inane objects like doors and walls but more recently has been directed towards me. Tonight was the worse I have ever experienced and I now have a bloody nose,bruises,and can't speak very well as he throttled me several times. I can still feel his hands round my neck. He doesn't mean it, he won't even remember he has done it in the morning. It could have been anyone, it just happened to be mebut I couldn't take any more and phoned the police and his worst nightmare has happened - he has been sectionedand taken to hospital. I didn't want to get him into trouble, I was just really afraid and wanted help.The way the violence has been escalatingI really believe the next time he will kill me (and the police officer agreed).I feel so bad because of what I have done butI am relieved. Maybe now he will get the help he needs. Sorry for waffling on, thank you for listening to me.I would be so grateful forany healing energy you can send. Thanks again. Jill

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Feb 07, 2007 6:05 pm

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Dear Jill,

I am so terrible sorry to hear that you have both had to go through this.

You have done the right thing - for the both of you.

I know it has taken so much stregnth for youto recognise the point at which you can no longer manage this situation on your own, despite the pain this clearly causes you.

I am just very glad that you had the courage to come on here and ask for help... you are loved and I am sure I speak for everyone when I say that support is here for you whenever you need it and for as long as you need it.

Sending much love and healing to the both of you - it will get easier in time and the important thing is that you are safe and he is getting the help he so desperately needs.

The outcome had younot done what you did is too awful to even contemplate, for both of you- I repeat from the heart that you did the right thing.

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Feb 08, 2007 9:28 am

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Hi Jill.
Your loyalty is amazing .Your, strength and Love shine through the sorrow you are obviously feeling........Much Love to you and your family......Lets hope your husband finds the answers he is looking for....and his health is restored.

Love and Hugs to you........Be safe

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Iceni

Feb 08, 2007 5:22 pm

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You did the right thing.

God bless you both and hope you may now begin a healing process.

Sending Love and Reiki to you.

Iceni x

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Dedwydd

Feb 08, 2007 5:52 pm

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RE: For my husband - your prayers please

Jill - I am sure Steve will be ok where he is and getting the right care and attention. He may not have wanted to go into hospital but I am sure it was and is the right thing.

I send you all my loving thoughts and Reiki healing.

I do have empathy - my first husband was put into a Psychiatric ward many years ago when I was just 22. He was and still is a manic schizophrenic.

No one can ever really know what the partners & family go through unless they have been there too.

You sound very loving & loyal, and I am sure you will continue to support him & be there for him, equally you must ensure that you are looked after too.. next time it could be much worse ~ For you both.

You have done right getting the authorities involved ~ It honestly is not something one person can deal with alone.

Take good care of yourself Jill - my heart weaps for you at this very difficult time.

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timeessence

Feb 08, 2007 5:56 pm

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Keeping you and Steve in my thoughts and my prayers and sending Love and Peace to both of you

Love

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