Family Feud - Help Required

Its always the same when weddings are concerned, people get so stressed that they forget what its all about! Could they both not do the reading for each other at the weddings? that would lovely and would mean so much more, maybe someone neutral to both parties could have a word, obviously not yourself, a close friend maybe, then if they choose not to listen then so be it, guarantee they'll regret it later if they don't sort themselves out though, such a shame! all this over a reading, bleeding eck!! Good luck! x