I would like to ask if you could send your thoughts to a situation that I feel may develop into a family feud between my neice and nephew.
My neice now 27 and her brother, now 29 are both marrying this year, my nephew (I believe has been influenced by his partner) has asked my neice to change one of the readings at her wedding because his partner wants it at their wedding, my neice has reacted quite sharply and said no, her partner is so mad and now doesnt want her brother (my nephew) to do the reading and has even suggested that they dont go to the wedding.
I have such a bad feeling about this situation, I really dont want it to get out of hand, growing up they were so close and it isnt worth falling out over a reading, I do think my nephew was in the wrong but its done now and I hope they can put it behind them and move on.
I hope that with your help with your healing/calming thoughts on this situation, they can resolve this.
Thank you so much for your help.
xxx
Hello Mystic Angel,
Oh dear thats not good. One of the most powerful things i have done in a situation that wasnt great was Send love to it. The very next day it had been resolved, how about that for quick work.
People do act funny around weddings and family members can be quite trying.
Why couldnt they both have the same readings?
Goodness me, if and when i get married it will be a quick i do on a beach some where.
Much love to you and your situation,
Rachelx
It's a bit like meeting someone in the same dress at a party! I found the answer was to complement the other person on their excellent taste. Don't know whether it that helps here - but a thought.
It must be such a special reading and loved by both. Certainly as hallos says sending Love to the situation may help - hope it gets resolved soon.
Are they regular church goers? When I was a choir girl, we often did three weddings on a Saturday - especially between June and September - I can't tell you how many times some of the readings were identical - at ceremonies on the same day!!!! It really doesn't matter. I would keep out of the way. No one can tell someone else what they can or cannot use at their ceremonies - it is up to the bridge/groom and vicar. If other family members take offence, that is their problem. Some people need their heads banging together!!!
I think this sort of thing is so sad. Coming up to such supposedly happy occasions, you'd think people could find a bit more love in their hearts. Fancy falling out - and to such an extent - over something like this. It makes me think that this is possibly just the tip of the iceberg and that there is more to this under the surface. Basically though mysticangel, if I were you I'd keep well clear and let them get on with it. Sending love and/or Reiki to the situation is possibly the only thing anyone can do, short of performing full frontal lobotomies on all concerned.
xxx
Edit to say I had to laugh when I saw that Jabba and I are - yet again - in agreement!