RE: can anyone help on bereavement
hi guin
thanks for the reply i am really delighted so many kind people responded back to me. and you lost your poor mammy too it is horrible to lose your mammy isnt it you know how i feel so i sympatise with you too
take care i hope i get some help with all the people who have replied to me i hope i can help someone in need too
all the best for now
slan (means bye in irish)
majella x
RE: can anyone help on bereavement
hi lorrayne
thanks for replying sorry you have been through the mill and back yourself may god bless you in your time of need with your niece i will pray for her im off to medjugourje on a pilgrimage soon and i will pray for your niece i promise . i have had lovely signs from mammy and that does my heart good i could be having a really bad day when all of a sudden i will get this beautiful sweet smell and i know it is her and i get such a lift that i will be grand for the rest of the day but unfortunately i do go down again thats what grief is doing to me up and down but i do have great faith in god so i put my thrust in him
thanks again
slan (means bye in irish)
majella
RE: can anyone help on bereavement
hello poppet
thank you for all your kindness the people who i will never know like strangers here are been so good that i cried when i read all the replys just proves there is stil good people out there.I am so sorry that your mammy and wee grandchildren have died ah that broke me heart over the children god love ya . I do talk to mammy all the time every day she left me her house but my daddy is stil alive so me and my husband and son have moved in to look after him he is 75 god love him too he misses her so much he breaks me heart
thanks again for the nice thoughts god bless
majella
RE: can anyone help on bereavement
Thank you majella for your commiserations to me in the midst of your own grief.
I am so pleased to read (in your replies to others) that you are aware of your dear Mammy being with you still, for she truly is and always will be. 🙂
It's wonderful that you and your family will be looking after your Dad, he needs you. I hope your Dad will take great comfort from you all. God Bless you and I will send healing thoughts to your Dad. xxxx
RE: can anyone help on bereavement
Hello again Majella,
Thank you so much for writing us all individual replies - gosh that doesn't happen very often! And I must say, I just love the way you write - straight from the heart and obviously just as you speak. i can hear your soft Irish lilt coming through as I read! 🙂
Try to find something to be grateful for each day - it's a huge help. And look out for your mammy's beautiful qualities as they come to you through other people.
I remember reading a lovely article on how a woman overcame grief. At her lowest point, when she was missing her mother so much - it was her birthday and her mother always made her her favourite cookies - her next door neighbour (who didn't know anything about this) arrived with a plate of those same cookies. Her mother was always so complimentary too - even to strangers. The next day, she was standing in a supermarket queue and the woman behind said "Oh what a beautiful red dress - you've just made my day!" and the writer then realised that she could never be cut off from goodness and happiness, just like she could never be cut off from her mother's love.
You are surrounded and embraced by Love!
Hugs,
Judy