RE: can anyone help on bereavement
Bless you Magella, I know the pain you are suffering, I lost my mum a few years ago and my darling sister just one year ago, and now my my lovely neice is dying.
I know they are still with me, sometimes my dreams are so vivid of their visits, and other little signs and feelings tell me they are with me.
Its hard to believe but the waves of agonising pain andgrief doesbecomes less. Let your friends and loved ones support you, talk about them and cry when you need to, be kind to yourself.
Sending you much love and healing
Lorrayne xx
RE: can anyone help on bereavement
Ah majella I feel for you honey. I too lost my mum a few years ago and two grandchildren so I know how it hurts. However, the old saying "Time is a great healer" is very true. Whilst you will always miss the people you have lost the pain does get easier. You will wake up one day to find that you only remember the lovely times you had with your loved one and can laugh again. There is no time limit on grief so I can't say this will happen in x weeks, months or years - the pain will ease when the time is right for you.
Do still talk to your dear Mammy and your friend they will hear you darlin' and will draw close to give you comfort.
Please accept my love and Reiki light to help you in your grief. [sm=hug.gif]
RE: can anyone help on bereavement
hi solas
thank you for your kindness
majella x
RE: can anyone help on bereavement
Dear Judy
oh thank you for your lovely kind words im so glad that i found this site. I am catholic and have great faith in jesus and the lord and holy mary i pray to god all the time and he does help me alot when my mammy was sick with the cancer i got great strength only from god and i looked after her i stayed in the hospital for the last 6 weeks of mammys life she had is so bad they let me sleep in the room all that time i know that mammy has been with me alot i have had lots of lovely signs and a beautiful smell comes to me but i havent got anything in a few weeks which makes me sad we were so close she was my best friend (thats what i meant i lost my mammy and my best friend it was mammy who was my best friend ) that poem was lovely i wish you all the best you kindness touched my heart thank you very much
take care
god bless you
majella
RE: can anyone help on bereavement
hi kath
thank you for been kind to me i know my mammy is with me but sometimes i wish she was here in the flesh and alive in this world with me i know time is a healer just havent got to that stage yet its stil very raw what happened . I can actually sing believe it of not but im not that girl your thinking of actually when my mammy was dying i sang all the old songs she thought me and she smiled at me which i get great comfort from i sang you raise me up by westlife but when i hear it now it just makes me cry i went to see westlife and when they sang that song my heart broke . Well thank you again for the kind thought
god bless we all have our troubles sorry you lost someone too
take care
majella