RE: Scarey dream!
Ohhh patsy,
i came back here a few times to check, but i was getting in a tizz being downstairs so decided i would go up to my room and try to relax, the thing was i then wanted to come back down and check here but got to scared.
So sorry that i missed this at the time as i really needed the reassurance. But it worked out ok. I didnt sleep to well and tried to keep my mind focused on positive things.
Spent most of night on ultra alert but got through it.
So thank you very much for taking the time to reply at an anxious although silly time.
im just sorry i missed it.
Beth xxxx
RE: Scarey dream!
Beth, I'm sorry I missed your post the other night... can't have been easy for you. It's not silly, it's real for you and that's important.
A thought about how to tackle this fear...feel free to take or leave, I don't mind... Sometimes we can face down dream fears during the daytime by re-living the dream in our mind and taking action which we didn't do while sleeping. For instance, think of the dream, think of what happened...then get ANGRY at the fear which clothed itself in your husband's form! Shout at it! Tell it it had NO RIGHT to pretend to be your loving husband, no right at all! How DARE it invade your space! And so on... (I'm sure you can be inventive!) Tell it to leave, right now!
Have plenty of hankies to hand and soft music to soothe you, a friend to phone or hand hold if necessary...but the point is to take control back for yourself. OR if anger doesn't feel right, ridicule it. Face it down, make it wear women's underwear or an elf suit... anything which helps you refuse the fear and replace it with something else.
Just a few suggestions, which you can take or leave, as I said.
Blessings
Moonfeather
RE: Scarey dream!
(Iam just asking this is what i think no offensce) If you are having troubles with your husband that could be haunting you & the door it is telling you to just let the troubles out.
Hope this helps
Blessings,
Shawn