Hey there amigos.
Not sure if I have this in the right forum as it may be psychology based but is it possible to be one of those people that always seems to get barged out the way or does this sort of thing happen to everyone ?
I was at school once and a really aggressive girl walked past and pushed me out of the way saying something nasty.
A woman said 'excuse me' in a nasty tone and pushed me from behind as if to move me out of the way.
Another friend barged me out of the way whilst we were in a queue.
Another 2 mates walked past and knocked into me slightly.
Someone on the street smacked right into me years ago. Not even a sorry.
A few days ago a woman pushed me slightly to get to something.
Is this normal ??
This is how people are or its my internal energies being reflected externally ??
Do I look like someone whose weak and easily pushed about. If I looked scary I'm sure I'd be left alone. I'm fed up of being someone who people think they can just throw about. I kind of want to say 'hello I am actually here'.
Similar to wearing a badge that says 'kick me' :-/
It sounds fairly normal to me.....we all get pushed at times. And these incidents seem to have happened over a reasonably long time span. A lot will depend on what is going on around you at the time of course and sometimes its just accidental, especially in a school environment.
Its possible you are just walking slower than the people around you and some of the more impatient ones just want to get past you. It isn't you they are irritated with it's your speed of movement.
But one thing I do know, if you THINK you are the sort of person who will get banged into a lot or kicked then that's what you will see happening.
I think some people are just rude or just stuck in their own worlds and don't notice other people.
In most of the cases you talk about I'm sure there was nothing personal in what was happening, the exception being the aggressive girl at school, though that's more about her own problems than about you.
For as many people there are who appear rude and ignorant/unaware of us, there are just as many who move out of our way, or who will smile and say hello. Sometimes it's just a case of who we choose to notice.
Hey there amigos.
Not sure if I have this in the right forum as it may be psychology based but is it possible to be one of those people that always seems to get barged out the way or does this sort of thing happen to everyone ?
I was at school once and a really aggressive girl walked past and pushed me out of the way saying something nasty.
A woman said 'excuse me' in a nasty tone and pushed me from behind as if to move me out of the way.
Another friend barged me out of the way whilst we were in a queue.
Another 2 mates walked past and knocked into me slightly.
Someone on the street smacked right into me years ago. Not even a sorry.
A few days ago a woman pushed me slightly to get to something.Is this normal ??
This is how people are or its my internal energies being reflected externally ??Do I look like someone whose weak and easily pushed about. If I looked scary I'm sure I'd be left alone. I'm fed up of being someone who people think they can just throw about. I kind of want to say 'hello I am actually here'.
Hello! You are very much here....
You know it all intellectually...as do a large number of us these days because Ether itself is replete with such knowledge. So you indicate time and again about how it is your internal being reflected on the external and such similar concepts.
I suggest, just take people at face value and not take it personally. All of us at the receiving end for all things good and bad. I am sure the bad stuff has a real talent in festering in our mind, as opposed to minor blessings and graces in life.
People are people, a fine mixture of abysmal and sublime....alll of us.
The best thing you will do is to get over people- all the good and bad they do to you and say about you...
Thou thinkst too much....
Chill and count your blessings (there are many, I can guarantee)
Love
Nah this was definitely deliberate.
I can think of two of them were nasty (pardon my french) bitches that had problems with every1 because they were so aggressive. No one liked them.
One barged past and pushed me out the way saying 'get out the f****** way' so definitely not accidental. Lol. Accidental I can forgive easier.
Well if this is how it is I might have to be aggressive back or barge them out the way.
Nah this was definitely deliberate.
I can think of two of them were nasty (pardon my french) bitches that had problems with every1 because they were so aggressive. No one liked them.
One barged past and pushed me out the way saying 'get out the f****** way' so definitely not accidental. Lol. Accidental I can forgive easier.
Well if this is how it is I might have to be aggressive back or barge them out the way.
I have said that in one of the earlier replies to your posts and I can repeat it here....Do what you have to do in a given moment, just don't get too cerebral/philosophical/ spiritual about it. Be present rather than all conceptual about your responses.
There is time we can take it, then there are times to lose it, then at other times to put people in their place, call aspade aspade and so on and so forth. Just do it with solid spirit, not shakey energy.
Have a jolly good time dealing with moment as it calls you to respond.
I guess in the bigger scheme of things it's only pushing. It could be a lot worse.
It's just the pain inside when it happens cos I'm sensitive :-/
All it takes is to do it back and then that would throw them off guard and scare them but my spiritual side says to remain calm 🙂
This is brilliant. I totally agree with you but unfortunately I am quite a floaty, dreamy person a lot of the time and sometimes slow to react so before I know it the event has already been and gone and I'm standing there thinking damn ???
I'm getting quicker though I think.
This is brilliant. I totally agree with you but unfortunately I am quite a floaty, dreamy person a lot of the time and sometimes slow to react so before I know it the event has already been and gone and I'm standing there thinking damn ???
I'm getting quicker though I think.
Good for you, o' floaty and dreamy one
Perhaps not more floaty and dreamy then me. I was a right dreamboat once....A right slow coach! I would think of all killing punchlines a week after the argument. Ha! Damn, bugger, blast!
Still not very different, but have no attachment to being this way or that anymore. Whatever the moment decrees, I am that.
But I trusted my lot, trusted that if it is so, then it is fine by me...
I can tell you those so called oppressors arn't anywhere in the equation anymore. They did me more favors than any harm. It was all for me, the whole show, the entire performance was enacted for my benefit, whichever way people played, they were obeying the plan of the Whole to ripen me. And they won in ripening me. But because I sussed the game, it was slightly less angst than this. That's all
You will say the same one day.
Just play with trust in your own destiny
All is good, and you will see it
I think because I suffered some violence early on in life that may be why I'm personalising it and thinking 'it's always me' but I can see now this is just how it is. That's cool man.
Perhaps the universe is tempting you to take back your power. Being sensitive is a great strength if you can hold your own space. If, however, your arcline has been affected by you sabotaging your own identity to be "small," you can not hold yourself either on task in life or in space with others. This happens with those who have been abused.
It can be healed and it sounds like you want to change the way you perceive yourself.
You can message me if you want to look into it further.
Bless you