My ex fiance unexpectedly died a couple of years ago but I only found out recently. It was a shock. I suppose in the back of my mind I thought we'd get back together. I've asked him to come to me in my dreams but no sightings yet. I want him to help me find a good man to marry in this lifetime. I never married and I'm lonely. I haven't been successful in finding anyone suitable. It would be good karma for him, right? 😉
Why would you want to hold him from going forward on his own path? (And, since you believe in karma, hardly good for you, surely?)
Forgot to mention that he said he wanted me to be happy (via a healer I know who is psychic and spontaneously is often contacted by spirits) and that he'd made a mistake by leaving me. I told him I wanted someone as wonderful as he was but without his faults. Cheeky! He said he'd find someone English. Time will tell. In life he was very competitive and successful at reaching goals so I told him I knew he was up to this task!
I do pray for his soul nightly, tell him that I love him and that I hope he gets what he needs on the other side.
Not all mistakes are karmic....it would depend if he learned from his mistake. And unless you were greatly harmed by his actions I wouldn't see that he owes you any karmic debt.
But why is it up to him to find a partner for you? Also have you considered that maybe you have something to learn from being single? In which case would he even be allowed to steer someone in your direction.
If he has got to the Land of the Dead then he will know that you have your path to follow and will not interfere. If he has not got to the Land of the Dead then his advice is not worth taking, and he needs help more than you do.