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Postive thoughts for my other half please

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wispy~misty
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(@wispymisty)
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Hi guys

Some of you may have seen my posts in the past, although I have been absent recently (beravements, job stress etc).

My other half has had a terrible 18 months - he whistle-blew against the action of his superior (whom he believed acted illegally). He has now been absent with work related stress for over a year and half whilst they investigated his claims. In the end although they appeared to uphold his complaint they have still seen fit to dismiss him under capability issues. We are now waiting to see what recourse he has under unfair discrimination.

Whilst we understand that this is a process we need to go through, it has run parallel to him trying to sell a property which is now vacant. We are thinking that he may have no option but to take a 20-25% loss against its valuation due to the current market. This is something that as an unemployed person is very difficult to do, as he is already suffering financially.

We were having quite an in-depth discussion today, when he stated that if he ended up having to take a cut of 20+% he would turn his back on his spiritual beliefs - he said that that would be for him, not me as he knows that my beliefs are very important to me (as his are to him - it seemed more of a challenge - verbalised to spirit).

Obviously we have heard of these sort of spiritual challenges before where one has to fully put one's faith into something to come out the other side, but this has been a very hard slog, as it has been combined with the loss of my mother to cancer (over a 3 month period) and also a cousin to MS.

I know that he is at his wits end, and I am not sure what else I can offer to help him. He does acknowlege and appreciate my support, and he did reciprocate it when I needed it. There are no issues within the relationship.

I am really just asking for some positive thoughts and prayers to give him some support over the next month or so, while we see where the path has to lead . . . . .

Many thanks in advance

Wispy~Misty xx


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(@beautystudent)
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I really feel for the two of you....you will both be in my prayers and thoughts. I hope things turn out for the best for you.


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(@oakapple)
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Hi Wispy.......I send love, healing and strength to you both...remember; 'That which doesn't kill us makes us stronger '....stay positive and everything will eventually be OK.......have faith!!

Much Love


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(@binah)
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Sending healing, reiki and karuna to the situation and to you and your boyfriend.

Luv Binah
x


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Reikiangel
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(@reikiangel)
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I feel so sorry for you both at this very trying time. The Universe sure knows how to crank up the pressure when we have a lesson to take on board!
Sending LOTS of love, positive thoughts and wonderful healing Reiki energy to you both and your situation. Have faith.

Love and light

reikiangel

xxx


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