Good morning everyone,
I do my best every day to include every individuals in my pryers.
I have been working with people close to death years ago and it has been one of the most amazing experience of my life.
It has been teaching me so much.
I saw a film recently called the Fountain.
If you heard about it, it's, in my opinion, a nice message, saying that it is more difficult for the one staying than for the one leaving...
The biggest lesson of all during this period has been HONESTY with myself, with people dying, with life and deeply inside with God.
Someone about to dye knows. There for, I would recomend to talk about it with the person when it is possible.
It can be the most fantastic communication that you will ever have with a human beeing, with your partner, with your parent...
It is a process and a very hard one, but I feel that we have morew energy to do the job and to help than the person close to death.
Being open and honest is such an efficient way to help the person leaving.
I was always very careful to how much I was speaking.
Usaualy, when I was speaking to much, it was a sign that I was refusing reality.
Warm wishes
Reply to myself
Hello there,
I am replying to my message.
I was rereading it and suddenly I realized that it was sounding wrong.
I have for sure no lesson to give to anyone about how to deal with pain, or death.
I was not delicate in the way I put things.
Funny enough, I had no answers at all and perhaps there's a reason for this.
Anyway, on my own way, I apologize to everyone I can have hurt or upset...
Sometimes you can be too quick answering or posting without rereading...
Warm wishes
Hi Denis,
Thanks for your post which I read with interest. Havn't seen the film fountain, but you're absolutly right about people avoiding the subject of death......It's to-late to talk afterwards.
Personally I think it comes from the fear of dying. In ancient times death was celebrated not feared......look forward to reading others responses.
Bright Blessings
Oakapple xx
Good to hear from someoone
My Boyfriend and Official Companion's grand mother is Cherokee!
When he was 6, she helped him finding his Guide.
He is not afraid and seems to understand the all process.
It's very interesting to live with such a compagnon.
Fear of death for him does not exist and he is sometimes more foccussed on fear of staying for too long and not going back home soon enough.
My point of view is that when it is time, it's time.
I try to be ready even though days are not all the same.
Some days, I am feeling that I could go and others when I feel so scared.
Well, welcome to human beings!!!