Hi...ive always been a bit sceptical about spiritual stuff sometimes wanting to believe it sometimes not...i had a reading a few years ago which made me a bit more open as there was just some stuff they couldn't have know....
Anyway...my question is...is all this coincidental or signs.....2 things really. One is surrounding someone who came back into my life last year....i didn't know he wasn't single to start and before I knew it I had totally fallen for him and wasn't treated too well....fast forward to this year and I think I'm getting over him to a degree but then one night a month ago all I could think about was him...the situation...all of it....i also had an overwhelming sense that he was thinking of me too...i then googled and discovered it was his wedding day that day. It totally freaked me out why would I feel in such a high emotional state about him before knowing what the day was?? A sign or coincidence?
Since then I can't get him out if my mind....i considered texting today to ask how he is. Maybe to say I miss him (I know that's a terrible idea ) I asked the universe for a sign...thought nothing happened then just now I saw his Facebook had been updated with his wedding photos at exactly the time I asked....another sign or coincidence?
Finally another sign Maybe??? I had a dream about a bar I've not been to in years last night....then today a guy asked me on a date and suggested that bat ( I live in London so there are thousands to choose from!) I wasn't sure about him before but is this a sign I should go? Or another coincidence...
Just think it's odd...so thoughts on signs/ psychic/ intuition/ angels or just coincidence...any thoughts?
Hi...ive always been a bit sceptical about spiritual stuff sometimes wanting to believe it sometimes not...i had a reading a few years ago which made me a bit more open as there was just some stuff they couldn't have know....
Anyway...my question is...is all this coincidental or signs.....2 things really. One is surrounding someone who came back into my life last year....i didn't know he wasn't single to start and before I knew it I had totally fallen for him and wasn't treated too well....fast forward to this year and I think I'm getting over him to a degree but then one night a month ago all I could think about was him...the situation...all of it....i also had an overwhelming sense that he was thinking of me too...i then googled and discovered it was his wedding day that day. It totally freaked me out why would I feel in such a high emotional state about him before knowing what the day was?? A sign or coincidence?
Since then I can't get him out if my mind....i considered texting today to ask how he is. Maybe to say I miss him (I know that's a terrible idea ) I asked the universe for a sign...thought nothing happened then just now I saw his Facebook had been updated with his wedding photos at exactly the time I asked....another sign or coincidence?
Finally another sign Maybe??? I had a dream about a bar I've not been to in years last night....then today a guy asked me on a date and suggested that bat ( I live in London so there are thousands to choose from!) I wasn't sure about him before but is this a sign I should go? Or another coincidence...
Just think it's odd...so thoughts on signs/ psychic/ intuition/ angels or just coincidence...any thoughts?
Spirituality has so many twists and turns that nobody has all the answers.
It certainly is possible that you are getting "spiritual nudges" but the bottom line is that you have to believe in yourself and use your own common sense in all matters.
First, welcome to the forum.
I know this is not what you want to hear. (I have been where you are, i.e. deeply in love when it was unrequited). Signs are not just green lights/favourable but indicate a message, i.e. something to be learnt. Yes you are tuned to his wavelength quite possibly, but is he tuned into yours? Hmm... Your post feels like clutching at straws when, really, you know the situation is doomed.
The signs you mentioned have all been screaming 'not available' and you kept having them because you weren't getting the message that he is newly married and has chosen her for his wife. Time to acknowledge this and try to move on if you can, e.g. try absorbing yourself in something that inspires you....no, not him!!
Who - in your world view - do you think is sending these signs? And where do angels come into it?
As far as what you should do is concerned, I agree with Amy. Surely you don't want to wreck his happiness and that of his new wife? (And that's assuming that you could.)
Thanks for the feedback...no I am not in any kind of false illusions about the situation.. I know what he did and no I don't want to hurt his wife it's not her fault.
The thing that's strange to me is I feel like I'm getting psychic about him/ other stuff....thats what's freaking me out...its never happened to me before and now it's happening quite a bit...
I don't know who would send me signals...passed grandparents...i don't know? Is this what happens or is it an angel or am I actually just psychic?