RE: reading
[sm=hug.gif]Hello Twinklelittlestar,
We all need hope in our lives so that we can carry on, the person who gave you the reading did just that gave you hope, that things will improve for you.
but saying that you are the master of your own destiny.
reading are good for making us feel good especialy when you are feeling down but we also all have free will,
i cant say that everything that you were told will come about, but some things will,
life is a difficult path to walk.
and we all need hope that things will become good for us, because if we didnt have hope you would have nothing,
have you thought of meditating? and asking your guides or angels for help with the situation that you are in?,
other than that i cant say anymore than Dedwydd has said
take care [sm=grouphug.gif]
RE: reading
Hello and Welcome Twinklelittlestar
Readings are for guidance and it seems you did receive some, but acting on that guidance is a personal thing to you as its your choice, your life. You will find that everyone has opinions on readings some people love them and others don't, some people live their lives waiting for something to happen which they have been told about in a reading. Readings should leave you feeling positive within yourself and by lifting your spirits up this can instantly change your life path.
If you felt lifted from your reading, keep thinking positive as positive thoughts attract positive actions. Its nice that you now have some daily guidance cards for yourself as to me it seems your starting to open up more which means a change in path.
One thing I would like to say is us readers aren't always right but sometimes you get a reading and think nope doesn't mean a thing but 6 months down the line you realise your in a situation which you was informed about! I know this happened to me about 10 years ago, I had my cards read and I could not see myself in those situations and here I am now exactly where I was told I would be.
Blessings to you, keep thinking positive
Whiteroom;)
RE: reading
Hi Twinklestar,
I've had more readings than hot dinners so I think I can give some advice on this.
First of all, it is wrong I think of your friend to say that if someone charges you for a reading they are false. There are people who have a gift of clairvoyance and use the cards and this is not just a past time or a party game, it's the way they pay their bills and put food on the table! They are giving you their time, their experience, their guidance, their skill and their energy. You wouldn't expect to go to the hairdresser and get if for free of for teachers and nurses to work for nothing would you? So that comment is pure nonsense.
We all need guidance and hopein various situations in our lives and that really is the main purpose of having a reading. I sense though that you are clinging too tighty and are desperate for anything that any card reader might tell you to happen. You're asking for a guarantee that no one can give. Like hairdressers and teachers, there are good readers and bad readers, there are gifted readers and readers who really would be better training to cut hair than letting themselves loose on the public with the tarot cards - speaking from experience. There are readers who are genuine and gifted and honest and there are readers who just come out with any old pile of junk...yes...just to get your money.
They best way to find a reader is by word of mouth. I did an experiment once and had six readings all in one night. I was interested to see what differences and similarities were picked up. Every single reading was different.
There are readers that seem to concentrate alot on what has happpened, reader that will give you a lot of info about what is happening now and readers that concentrate maninly on the futures. Add to this readers who are mediums and will start passing messages on from loved ones during the readings. There are readers who do not concentrate on the minutae of our daily earthly lives but are better for guidance on our spiritual journey, so rather than say ' you and your mum keep arguing' they will say something like 'you have reincarnated with the same group over many lifetimes and are currently working out old issues and reaping karma with specific members of your group'.
I would say, on the whole, 90% of the predictions made by all the card readers I have met have NOT come true so I think it would be very foolhardy to cling to it blindly as an absolute concrete fact. The six readings I had in one night, all the future predictions varied greatly, to the degree that they cannot all come true. So that proves it would be wrong to place total and complete trust in their evaluation of the future because if I had only had one reading that night I would then be expecting only those events as I wouldn't have had anymore readings to compare them to to see how vastly they do differ.
I have a feeling your reading this and feeling disappointed, seeing that what I've said about future predictions is a bad thing but if you think about it it is a very good thing. You do have free will and you will change as you mature. Your ideas of what you want will change a lot from decade to decade. So in the case of relationships, if there is someone you want to be with now and a reader has said you will marry that person for definite, imagine while you are waiting for this to happen you meet someone else and fall head over heels in love with them and they with you and they ask you to marry them! But what now? You have been told you will marry this other person for sure and it must be true as the reader said so and it is set in concrete! So must you now not marry this latest person because you are now (unahppily) destined to marry your old love?? No of course not and that is why it is a good thing. Not only do you not know what will happen you do not know what you yourself will want in x number of years time.
Have readings by all mean but I think you need to be more relaxed about them and not so desper
RE: reading
Well I dont live my life by readings but I was lucky enough to get a reading from whiteroom who posted above, on this site and it really gave me a boost, regardless of whether everything in it came true it was just a pleasure to get a reading from someone who hit the nail on the head on so many points.
It is also very true that we also shape our own destiny but theres nothing wrong with getting a shove in the right direction.
Ive also done readings for friends and I dont claim to be gifted but Ive had some nice feedback and I think as long as the intentions behind the reading are good and you dont stake your whole life on the outcome, you should get a feel for how you perceive what the reader is trying to assist you with.