Jessica
Very touching. May I give you a warm loving, soothing hug? It seems your grieving has not found a sense of completion because there is a lot you would have loved to say to your mum and a lot that you would love to hear from her. So it is the burden of unsaid love that you carry in your heart.
Inspiral has given you an excellent piece of advice. Your mother is in the lap of perfection as perfection itself now. when the body is no more the limitations of body can't carry on. When the mind is no more the limitations of mind don't exist. Your mother lives through you. For you are part of that energy...A part of her , her habits, her ways, her heart , her loves continue in you as you.
Allow yourself to grieve with tears, talking about her-but from a place of fullness. If you allow tears, heaviness of unexpressed love, it will fill you with love again. Your mum is already in that place of love. it cannot be any other way.
A place of lack is not where she is. Nobody ever dies-only the body dies. Sit in love and know that even when she did not say much the love was always there. You didn't get to hear much of it but the essence of that love is beyond what words can say anyway. know in your heart that you each moment you feel love for her it is being communicated to her in ways you cannot imagine.
May I suggest sit with her in your heart and love her the way you really want to- and feel the sensation of joy and lightness.
I see this cloud lifting soon. may it become easy
loving hugs
My experience is that anyone dying in confusion (which certainly includes those with dementia) needs help to get where they need to be.
The Land of the Dead is more spiritual/less material than here, but not as much as you might expect.
where exactly do they need to get to? They need help to get to where they need to be...whose help?
Your experience of death? Did you die once and recall all this detail?
The land of dead is more spiritual/less material than here...but not as much as might expect" that is precise, have you visited it?
I find it odd because we don't even know what exactly is going on here on this planet, within our own little bodies, in our big toes let alone have a charted map of land of dead. Not knowing is the way of life( or death). we can barely see the tip of iceberg yet pretend to be keepers of the oceans.
Inspiral
Always nice to see a new member to join us old farts; when its allied to common sense and insight even better.
Sensibility, joy and a shade of caution there you have the basis and stepping stones for your future. There is much to you that others do not yet see =)
My experience is that anyone dying in confusion (which certainly includes those with dementia) needs help to get where they need to be.
The Land of the Dead is more spiritual/less material than here, but not as much as you might expect.
Hi Crowan
I can only go by my own experience. My father had dementia, and was very confused towards the end of his life. However I was blessed to receive a message from him, via a fellow medium who did not know he had passed, two days after his death, and prior to his funeral.
In the message, he gave specific instructions with regard to arrangements that were being made, detailed events that had occured since his passing, and talked about conversations we had prior to his passing when we believed him to be out of contact with us.
Hardly the actions of a man who needed help to get where he needed to be.
Without a doubt, my father shook off the restrictions of his illness as soon as he stepped into the Light, and is now the whole, happy and intelligent man he always was.
Jay - inspiral:)
where exactly do they need to get to? They need help to get to where they need to be...whose help?
Anyone who can help.
Your experience of death? Did you die once and recall all this detail?
As we all have. Also, many years of discussing this with spirit teachers and working with those who have died and are stuck between here and the Land of the Dead.
The land of dead is more spiritual/less material than here...but not as much as might expect" that is precise, have you visited it?
Yes.