My name is Jessica. I was wondering if you could help me connect to my Mum. She sadly passed away when I was 14 due to an aggressive brain tumour. Due to where the tumour was is enabled her to talk or move and sometimes i even wondered if she even recognised me. I sank into a deep depression of which i'm still battling now. I just need some closure that she is at peace and i would like to tell her that I love her and know that she can understand. Would you be able to help?
Many Thanks
Jessica
Please consider this very carefully. I guess you will get a lot of soothing replies, but my experience of working with the dead shamanically is that the souls who can be contacted are in need of help that you are unlikely to be able to give. Those who have reached the Land of the Dead realise that they need to get on with their path and can no longer help with yours.
I would advise that you either ask a shamanic practitioner to check up on your mother and, if necessary, take her to the Land of the Dead or learn some shamanism yourself.
I have a slightly different perspective of death than Crowan, but I like her comments.
Don't expect to be contacted by her or for you to be able to contact her, believe that she is safe, happy and loved. Most of loved ones who have passed over have no need to make their presence known to those who are living, they are resting and evaluating their lives before they begin another, only my opinion of course, but it gives me comfort.
Your mum already knows you love her very much. I'm sure a part of her is always there beside you, watching over you and is very proud of you.
I haven't lost my mother and I can't imagine how you feel, but since losing my Nana, I talk to her and ask her advice still. I don't expect to hear her voice but I sometimes get an answer of some sort, sometimes quite unexpectedly. Maybe you could try talking to her? Just to get things off your chest.
My name is Jessica. I was wondering if you could help me connect to my Mum. She sadly passed away when I was 14 due to an aggressive brain tumour. Due to where the tumour was is enabled her to talk or move and sometimes i even wondered if she even recognised me. I sank into a deep depression of which i'm still battling now. I just need some closure that she is at peace and i would like to tell her that I love her and know that she can understand. Would you be able to help?
Many Thanks
Jessica
Hi Jessica
Im a clairvoyant medium of some years standing, and over the years have thought long and hard about many of the questions you have raised in your post. I havent gained my knowledge from books, preferring to work with what feels "right", and thus far, it seems to resonate.
So - the following is only my idea - and not to be taken as "gospel".
Firstly, you worry about whether your mum is at peace and able to understand. My own father passed recently after severe dementia, and I can tell you with confidence that once they pass to Spirit, their old ability to understand and communicate comes back. What you have to remember is that your mum is a Spirit energy, not the physical body she used to inhabit, so she is whole and perfect now.
I can say with certainty that she knows you love her. Im sure that you talk to her, and she hears you - love transcends all boundaries, including death, and our loved ones know when we are thinking of them - your mum is no exception.
You must be careful when posting on the internet and showing how badly you want contact with your mum. I do believe that she can be contacted for you, and have many many examples of this happening. However, there are a lot of people out there who will see your posting as a chance to rook you for money. Please be careful. If you are really keen to make the contact, can I suggest you start with your local spiritualist centre ? They usually have mediums there every week, and wont charge beyond a few pounds entry,
However, I also have to warn you that if you are not emotionally ready and able to cope with your mum coming through she may not do so. Spiit know whether you can cope with the contact, and if you are likely to fall apart when you contact your mum again, she may well delay this until you are more able to cope. So dont be disappointed if this doesnt happen overnight.
Keep talking to your mum, she can hear you, and keep sending up the love. When the time is right, it will happen. I wish you every blessing in the world - I know how you feel and send love xxx
Firstly, you worry about whether your mum is at peace and able to understand. My own father passed recently after severe dementia, and I can tell you with confidence that once they pass to Spirit, their old ability to understand and communicate comes back.
My experience is that anyone dying in confusion (which certainly includes those with dementia) needs help to get where they need to be.
What you have to remember is that your mum is a Spirit energy, not the physical body she used to inhabit, so she is whole and perfect now.
The Land of the Dead is more spiritual/less material than here, but not as much as you might expect.