Hi All
I wonder if anyone could give me some advice please, I am going through a difficult time at the moment but when I dream I am dreaming every night about a person who I dont see anymore , want to forget this person but they are there in my dreams every night! wonder if anyone could shed some light on reoccuring dreams please Thank you Clareyangel x
Dear Clareyangel,
I'm sorry you're going through such a difficult time right now. Be assured that it will pass, as all things do. Be assured, also, that you are not alone. Many others have been through and will go through what you are going through.
It seems that you are processing some aspects of the relationship with this person you do not see any more. Although you want to shut this person out of your heart/mind/life, the wisdom of your unconscious is seeking to bring things to light. I would recommend journalling every morning, not just about your dreams, but also about the feelings that remain just under the surface in relation to this person.
You will find in time that the dreams abate, as you begin to consciously process this relationship. Processing the relationship will involve feeling things that you may rather not feel. But believe me, it is worth it. It is only then that you will be able to truly move on.
It may also be possible that your dreams are trying to tell you something specific about this relationship. Again, by journalling you will begin to see patterns in the dreams and may discern messages that in being heard will allow the dreams to come to an end.
I hope this is of some help.
Heather
Hello there
I am a professional Dream Analyist. When we have recurring dreams they mean that our subconscious mind is trying to get a meesage through to us. The person you are dreaming about could indicate that there is an unresolved issue arising from the time that you last saw this person. Otherwise there could be facet of that person's personality that you either recognise in yourself or someone close to you at this time which is unsettling you.
It is difficult to go any further without knowing more but I hope that this helps a little.
It helps to keep a journal and to write down everything about he dream from the timing to colours, sounds, taste, feelings when you awake etc. If you want any further help the please feel free to e-mail me further.