i keep having a reoccuring dream about my daughter who i miscarried 7 months ago. in the dream she's screaming and crying for me to help her. this relly freaks me out and hurts me. any idea what it means?
RE: my daughter
Hello Jadedgurl,
I am so sorry to hear of your miscarriage. I too, miscarried and it is as bad as going through the death of a baby, it really is.
It sounds as if you are feeling guilty about what happened. It was not your fault that your daughter decided to return to her spirit home. It was an experience that her soul needed at that time, and you, her mum, was not to blame for it. Your daughter is not screaming out for help, dear jadadgurl. It is your thoughts of failure that are making you feel like this. Your child is well and happy and may come again when the time is right.
Try to be at peace with her spirit and with yours. Speaking with her as you would a living person is what she wants you to do.
Love,
Patsy.
[&:]
RE: my daughter
I am sorry to hear you are having upsetting dreams. patsy is correct - it seems it is your inner feelings of guilt that create this dream for you.
Sometimes babies dont feel its the right time for them to be in this world. Things happen for a reason and it just wasnt her time. Please dont feel sad, your time will come and as patsy said, your daughter will come into the world when the time is right.
You can use protective mirrors (imaginary) ones that surround you, pointing outwards from the crown of your head, all round your body, meeting up at the head again, imagine they are surrounding you and pointing outwards, they will offer you protection.
with love and light
tammy:)
RE: my daughter
Hi Jadedgurl,
I'm so sorry to read what you've been through...my feeling is that it's not guilt as such thats making you have these dreams but more to do with that you've been through a situation that you had tottally no control over & thats why your dreaming that your daughter is crying out for you...your still left feeling helpless...as tammy & patsy has said already the time wasn't quiet right 'This time'
I know you've probably heard this a million times but counselling would really be a big help.....you need to greive & once you do & stop trying to put on a brave face for the rest of the world I'm sure your dreams will stop....it's not your baby you see in your dreams, she's in spirit, it's your mind dealing with your stress & inner termoil.
Stay strong
Love
Amy
RE: my daughter
Utterly agree with all that has been said.
jadedgurl - maybe a little bit of counselling will help. You need to reconcile your loss. Poor love! Think of your little daughter as being one of these [sm=angel-smiley-027.gif]
Do come back and tell us how you are getting on, won't you?
X! (Big kiss) 😀 (Smiley face to help you feel better.)
Love,
Patsy.
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