I am looking for anyone who may be able to help me with my dream. It started with a room full of shelves, a library but only instead of books there was boxes, There was a moveable ladder around the room, I was told to climb up the ladder and fetch 'something' from one of the boxes. I climbed up higher and higher, it was getting quite dark when i reached the box i needed, I sat on the shelf and started to unpack the box.....then i noticed the ladder was gone.....I sat there thinking of what I was going to do next when the door opened and in walked my ex husband......Brian i shouted ,help me i am stuck, he looked up. 'You bitch he said, you have ruined my life, you can stay there forever. I woke up. The next night I was back in the room, it was an action replay only this time my present husband walked in, he was holding a clip board and a yellow pencil. Paul, I yelled help me, he looked up. He said he was too busy to help me but if I jumped down the worst thing that could happen to me was that I would break my ankle. I sat there crying, my crying woke me up. The next night same again but this time I was already crying when my cousin walked in, he asked me what I was doing, I told him I was stuck. He didn't speak but I saw him look around for the ladder, he brought it back into position and climbed up to me, he turned me around and kept his arms around me until I was back on the ground. Since then all I ever dream about is boxes, boxes of all shape and sizes. Is there anyone who can translate for me. Many thanks. Love and pink light. Suze x x
RE: looking for help with my dreams
Hi Suze
I would of thought that your dreams are telling you that you've got issues in you mind that you still have to deal with (comeing through in your dreams as boxes) & your being told to go & have a look inside & sort it all out...the ladder being moved is a way of your higher self telling you your not coming down until it's delt with. I don't know anything about you & your X but I feel that your were let down badly...I don't now if you let yourself down or if he let you down but what ever you have to clear all the emotional baggage thats still within you...even if you feel in the light of day that you have I think your dreams are screaming out to you that you've still got quite a lot of work within yourself to do. Your Husband maybe a symbol of you feeling like you need a crutch at times..but I'd say this dream is telling you you'd be better off to sort things out for yourself as it will then empower you personally...your cosin could indicate that if you feel you need to then confide your feeling to someone 'imparchal' (oh dear bad spelling[:o]) to your marraige to help you purge all those stale emotions that you've been lugging about with you over the years!!!!
This is just my guess...take NO notice if it doesn't mean anything to you[sm=scratchchin.gif]
Hope you get a good nights sleep soon;)
Love
Amy
RE: looking for help with my dreams
Hi Suze, another view for you:
I am looking for anyone who may be able to help me with my dream.
It started with a room full of shelves, a library but only instead of books there was boxes,
This appears to be a subconscious aspect of yourself, shelves indicating levels or layers to part of your inner personality. A library would normally represent a place for books, which in dream language would be repositories for memories. However there are boxes instead of books, so perhaps memories that are 'boxed in', not easily accessed.
There was a moveable ladder around the room,
Ladders are symbolic of means to gain entry into the different levels of the psyche (via up ways or down) (Jacob's Ladder). Moveable ladder indicates some wavering or uncertainty about accessing what's within.
I was told to climb up the ladder and fetch 'something' from one of the boxes.
A message for you to come face to face with an issue
I climbed up higher and higher, it was getting quite dark when i reached the box i needed, I sat on the shelf and started to unpack the box.
More indication of fear felt as to what you need to face
....then i noticed the ladder was gone.....I sat there thinking of what I was going to do next
a feeling of imbalance (more fear)
when the door opened and in walked my ex husband......Brian i shouted ,help me i am stuck, he looked up. 'You bitch he said, you have ruined my life, you can stay there forever. I woke up. The next night I was back in the room, it was an action replay only this time my present husband walked in, he was holding a clip board and a yellow pencil. Paul, I yelled help me, he looked up. He said he was too busy to help me but if I jumped down the worst thing that could happen to me was that I would break my ankle.
This is the inner core of the 'message in the box'. The message you're being asked to "fetch out" seems to be about past/present relationships with these two men.
I sat there crying, my crying woke me up. The next night same again but this time I was already crying when my cousin walked in, he asked me what I was doing, I told him I was stuck. He didn't speak but I saw him look around for the ladder, he brought it back into position and climbed up to me, he turned me around and kept his arms around me until I was back on the ground.
A recurring dream pattern may be indicative of repeating issue patterns in certain (male?) relationships. More information would be needed to uncover the problematic (stuck) areas in order to try to resolve whatever is going on. However taking a guess it may be about dependency issues... needing to be rescued out of situations you have created, instead of taking responsibility yourself.
It was a family member (a cousin) that rescued you this time, not 'a husband'.
So perhaps it is more familiar for you to be looked after in the early home environment than it is in a marital one??
Or the opposite could be true, you weren't looked after then, so there is a possible exaggerated need to be so in a martial relationship??.
As I say more info is needed about your waking experiences to uncover what's going on here.
Hope this helps a little
astra x