We are both curious...these are his dreams, not mine...
my husband has had two dreams now of my ex-husband..he has never met him, never seen his picture, yet the following morning he told me exactly what he looked like, his hari, texture, color, curly, his eyes, his smile, his laugh, the fact he drinks beer - and a lot...
the first dream he had called Chris (my ex) to meet us out front of our apartment building...my husband and i were walking hand in hand and then in one moment we were walking toward Chris, and then Chris grabbed me - tryed to kiss me, i broke away and caught up with my husband..
the second dream, he met up with Chris at the bar downstairs of our apartment complex, and my husband remembers he was in a hurry to do something or go somewhere, but Chris stopped him for a drink..and explained to him why our marriage dissolved. which was very ironic - i never really told my husband all the details - just that i met my ex's girlfriend, in my house, as i had come home for christmas exodus in the military and caught her in my house. Anywho - Chris told him about catching me on the phone, (and i had told my husband about an incident that involved this - which i was on the phone with my cousin Ryan, who wasnt really a cousin, just like one, raised with our family sort of speak..and he had lost his grandpa, 2 weeks later his grandma..and i was consoling him - the ex was so furious he ripped the phone cord out of the wall and forbid me to call any man.) and deemed he needed to seek revenge - which my ex is a very insecure man and this seems plausable. My husband kept telling me that he was asking him why - when he didnt answer he would say 'ah well, such is life, lets drink up!' and down another beer...my husband also told me he got drunk in his dream...and when he woke up that morning he was feeling queezy..
not sure what any of this means, as we are both curious as to why he is dreaming about my ex, and what might be triggering this...
Ada
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Also - hubby had a dream the other night....was wondering if anyone could help us...
he had a dream he was back in his home town Prizren Kosovo...all the buildings were the same, and it was grey, dark, dank, and smelled very very foul. he said the smell was the strongest thing in the dream..
he saw dead dogs everywhere, and piles of garbage just thrown every which a way. he said there were people in his dream, he knew people were still living in his town, but they wernt on the streets...
was wondering if anyone knew what this meant? thanks!
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I wish someone would help me really - i need an interpretation - i dont understand why he keeps dreaming these dreams...here is the latest from last night:
we were in stairs at your dads house and they were more than 3
like 15 and longer
and all your friends came to ...it was like farewell party but I dont know
for sure....or like you are going somewhere ..not sure but it was something
they came for....I was there to...
and it was like military salution in front of your dads door....
we were all there
and they came one by one to give last salution to you
of course some of those were your lovers and it was hard for them to say
goodbye
I remember one guy was crying so bad it was like one of those i saw in pic
your mom was keeping at home.
And he was crying and you were in his arms you were so sad, in one moment
you disapeared with him
I went to pee in bathroom i saw you there with him... in the shower he was
naked and your body was in the wall while he was keeping your legs like
having sex
but you were naked on top ...
so it was begining of it or you didnt want or something was going on
but i was in bad monent there ...
I just looked at you you were wet and calledyour name
you couldnt look in my eyes you were so embarased you couldnt look in my
eyes
and didnt say anything and i didnt know what to say or do......I just said
....you should at least tell me ....that your heart belong to someone else
not let me hanged like this....
please - can someone please help?
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Hi Ramadani.
I feel that your husband is going through deepfeelings of betrayal and issues of trust.
He met your ex in the first dream, a very insecure man. Your husband deep down is having these fears too, of losing you, of losing everything.
In the second dream his home town was dark and dank. The dogs represent loyalty and they were dead.
The houses are himself; he is 'dying' within himself; not looking to his inner needs which is why rubbish is everywhere. He isneglecting himself in some way and his loyality to himself, and how he views the loyalty of others. Thisneeds to be looked at because he is 'dead' to this and it will 'rot' away inside of himself.
In the third dream he has actually lost your heart; he has realised his fears and haswitnessed goodbyes from all your former loves. He became part of that group when he found you in the shower.
He needs to talk to someone. Something, probably in his past, is surfacing and it needs to be looked at otherwise he could act out in real life these fears of his.
Be gentle with him because he is 'homeless' inside and frightened.
Let me know how you get on.
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well - thank you for the help...
my husband is from another country - so he had to leave all his family and friends behind to live here with me....he is constantly wishing he had his work visa...so he can buy me things and be incontrol of the bills instead of having to rely on me...but - we are making do with what we have..he gets depressive some days...but he is good most days and happy...i try not to pressure him about things - and always let him know i apretieate everything he does around the house....
maybe the emptiness is him not bieng in control....of having to rely on others for support....thank you magna....