I am a very deep sleeper and usually fall asleep before my head hits the pillow - I don't tend to remember dreams. I have been told by a couple of folks that I am being sent messages via my dreams and have been trying to remember them. This morning I had woken and was then dozing andI sort of remembered snippets of dreams. In real life I recently became very entangled in someone else's life (they had built a very fragile and complexexistence based on lies or disguising truths andI cracked the whole lot open). This man has been extremely angry at me, mainly because I think I frightened him by what I had done to the mirage of a life he had built up.I have continued to send him healing but he doesn't know that.This morning I dreamt I was dancing and took a fall and it was him who came to help me and there was real care and softness in his face. Is this just wishfull thinking on my part (I hate conflict with anyone and would just want him to know I never meant any harm) or is it a 'message' that he understands and it is okay?
I'm not sure I've given enough information to make much sense here.
With love
G
RE: How much can we take from dreams
perhaps he now appreciates the freedom you have given himby exposing theh facade, & he will see a way to being brave & honest in teh future.
or, he may not be there yet!
but your subconcious is reassuring you that you didn't act out of malice in confronting him, as i feel you did so to relieve an unbearable situation.
have you doubted what you did? your motives, or the outcome?
RE: How much can we take from dreams
The situation that I cracked open was a framework of relationships that each provided him with something - a wife who provided him a gateway to immigration, a girlfriend who supported him emotionally and financially and another girlfriend who provided company locally. Both the girlfriends contacted me through slightly bizarre circumstances and after that I felt as ifI was playing a part in a play or was a cog in the machinery - I didn't set out to dismantle anything but was somehow a key part in this happening. I didn't confront him except about the local girlfriend and that caused an explosion of fury. I am not even sure he knows I know of the wife or other girlfriend, but I think she has told him.
Difficult to believe as it is I still feel there is a fundamentally good person under all of this, who grew up in a country where subdifuge was necessary to survive. I think that was what the dream may have been telling me, but I'm not sure whether it was my feelings coming out or a message that my feelings were correct.
With love
G