Hi everyone, hoping someone can help with a strange dream I had last night.......
Ok so at the moment I'm having a few difficulties with my partner and recently I saw my ex-boyfriend (of about 5yrs ago). I was absolutely besotted with this guy - although he messed me around and each time I have a new partner he turns up out the blue. The problem is now I often compare him to my partner - my partner is a much nicer person but looks-wise I am still attracted to this other guy. Which is MUST get over!!
Anyway, the dream....
I had been thinking about him last night so I'm guessing this is why he featured in my dream? It was so vivid at the time - I had met up with him behind my guy's back - and then I remember (the details are getting more sketchy) my ex rejecting me. I wonder whether this is because he rejected me before or perhaps because I have a fear that if I entered into something again with him in the future he might reject me again?
I often wonder if these sorts of dreams are messages from spirit?...........
Rainbow x 🙂
RE: Dream involving my ex......
Hi Rainbow,
I don't know about message from Spirit, but definitly messages from your unconscious.
Ypou say that part of youstill feels attracted to yoru ex. Seems like your dream warns you it would be a distaster to get involved again with him. He rejected you then, and would again!
I gues that to get over the p[reviosu one you need to find someone with whom things work really well. But in order to allow that to happen, you can't be always comparing the new guy to the old one...
Artemis
RE: Dream involving my ex......
Artemis,
My thoughts exactly regarding my unconscious! I'll steer well clear I think!
These dreams are funny things.......I wish I remembered more!
Rainbow 🙂
RE: Dream involving my ex......
Hmm why do you want to know more? Surly this is all part and parcel of the issues you need to look at within and around your life so you understand the lesson life is trying to teach you?
Dreams act in three`s One to do with the issues that aregoing on now and what effect it is having on you.
One where spirit give you a message in some way, yet you need to decode is usually ( which is fun)
And the third is a mixture of both.
Love
Ithar
RE: Dream involving my ex......
Hello Rainbow, you know our dreams are funny at times, my feeling is you still love the man deep down and you would love maybe to have the romanticness, fun etc.. of it all again, the rejection is somthing you fear as you say, but is it not important to be honest with yourself and your feelings. If one says Spirit, what spirit do you feel that would guide you within your dream. Back, Rejecting, Fear, this person will alway crop up in your dream untill you finaly let go. The dream offer you a descion to be made .
only take what feel right to you.
love and blessings
lightwinds
Wendy x