Wonder if anyone can help interpret my dream?
Recent background, my husband and I have recently split up and I really want to make it work so I am giving him space and patience - although struggling at time.
I dreamt he had come home and I knew we were not really together but he climbed into bed beside me and I could physicall feel him there - I asked him what people were saying about us not being together and he whispered something so I asked him to repeat it. He said it doesnt matte what people are saying about that 'cause we are going to do everything to make this work and I honestly felt him slide across the bed with his back to me and I was euphoric although trying to remain very calm and said Oh OK then. My son then woke me up and in between subconcious and concious I could still feel him lying beside me although I knew he wasnt really there so wasnt at all disappointed when I woke completely and he wasnt there.
Is this a premonition? Or is it just a dream of wishful thinking? I would love anybodys views on it. It truly was like there was an indentation on his side of the bed and his pillow and I could smell him and feel him and everything.
Again these vivid dreams have only happened since my spirituality has been awoken.
Any views loved.
Hi marylouise,
When we dream of an ex-partner/husband/wife/girlfriend, we are really relating them to our innermost feelings.....the dream was about how you feel. NOT about your ex....
I don't know your circumstances but you say you weren't really together in your dream....you also say that you asked him what people were saying about your relationship.......are you sure it doesn't matter what others are saying ?
your son woke you.....emm.!!...lastly you wern't disappointed that your ex wasn't there......
These are YOUR feelings.....use this time to discover how YOU really feel.....
This is only my opinion.....but when do we get this time otherwise....does he need to change ?. Do you need to change ?. Is he good for you ?....
Use this time wisely if there are kids involved....
Love and Blessings
Oakapple xx
I dont mean I wasnt disappointed in the fact he wasnt there, I would have given anything for him to be there, But somewhere between conscious and sleeping it was like I was watching it being played out to me. So I KNEW he wasnt there but felt that this is what would happen in the future. Like a message from Angels? Or a premonition. And no, I dont actually care what people are saying, but was more worried he was.
Yes I do need to change, and yes I am using this time to do that. Yes we were/are good together. But, he is now lost in a cloud of unhappiness/depression.
I get a strong feeling from him that he was blaming me (and the way I acted) for how bad he felt about himself, but now he has left he realises that he still feels as bad - and just doesnt know how to put it better.
Family means everything to me, my child needs his mother and father and I will work my socks of to get that back for him.
I would keep a dream diary and just jot down all the relevent info that your dreams reveal to you...dreams open deep ,hidden emotions that sometimes we find hard to face in the light of day....you could then work with your guides and angels to help yourself.....and your husband...
Good luck xx
Thank you have defo started diary cause I woke-up after that with the most light-heart I have had in weeks and lasted for about 3 days. Wish I could wake every morning like that all glowy and happy not dishevelled and tired.
blessings