Hi,
Every morning on waking, I wake up feeling very depressed. I don't usually remember any dreams but when I do, I often dream about dealing with difficult issues or problems on my own and feel very isolated. After a few minutes, I feel fine and ready to face the day. I thought dreams were there to sort out your subconscious and help you , so why am I feeling so bad?
Also, my 7 year old son occassionally has bad dreams (like all kids) but it's always about being frightened by monsters and either myself or his Dad (we're separated but there is regular contact for my son) abandoning him. He gets really upset. I suppose this is all about me and his Dad splitting up when he was 4 years old.
RE: Black mood on waking
"I don't usually remember any dreams but when I do, I often dream about dealing with difficult issues or problems on my own and feel very isolated. "
Have you been ableto come to terms with the break up of your relationship. Sometimes the biggest issue is when we" had the company at night time", and then it not there, this can make a person feel very lonely, after 15 years married and divorced, I felt terrible when I use to wake up in the morning...sort of empty. But then off I go and get on with thing untill the next time.
I use to have rotten dream, but I though this is telling me to make changes, so I was fed up of wakeing with that empty and depressed feeling of just excisting. I just change and moved forwards. Your dream is telling you to make a change in your life.
Hope this help abit.
love and blessings
lightwinds
Wendy x
RE: Black mood on waking
Hi,
Iam fairly sureI have come to terms with the break up of my marriage although I am a little frightened to move on and get my divorce. I think this is because my husband can be a bit volatile and it's likely to get a bit emotional, which I something I am keen to avoid.
I think the issue is my current relationship which I have had a lot of difficulties with. A few months ago, I made a decision that I had to change my life for the better and am now making headway with that. My partner has changed a lot since I have made changes to my life and we are getting on a lot better and for the first time ever, I can see us having a future.
I suppose I still have days when I feel lonely - I have difficulties in my friendships and am probably too eager to please, at the root of the problem, is my fear of being alone I suppose and this is what is being reflected in my dreams. It's always scary to move forward and make changes and I suppose my subconscious is wary of all this change and is maybe trying to keep me "safe" by not wanting me to change.
RE: Black mood on waking
I in my second relationship, and sometimes I get all sort of feeling creeping up inside.
But the most important thing Iv'e learn is to be true to myself, it all about knowing who I really am and making shore Im happy, weather I end up alone in the future or not.
We sometime get these dream just to remind us our changing to please others or ourselves.
love and blessings
lightwinds
Wendy x