Bad news -Well I told her, she seemed happy to know at first, and I thought it was ok, but then she said she loves me, but all I can be is a friend right now, I think that was a nice way of saying she loves me as a friend, so were still good friends and she is happy to know about, see what the future holds.
I'm very impressed C.T. A lesser man would have dithered about, but you went out and said what you had to say. Because of the maturity you've shown I bet you've gone up in her estimation now. Well done. :045:
Good news - I'm at peace now... I really am, I just had to know, I'm devastated but happy at the same time.
It's bitter sweet but at least you've been open about your feelings, and you know where you stand now. You never know, you might be dreaming about someone else before long. 🙂
Yeah she said she was very happy with my honesty, I think we are going to become very good friends even better than we are now, hopefully one day something more.
And yeah, hopefully someone else will come along that will be even more suited.
It was hard but I'm at peace its over with.
Thanks again. 🙂
I have some more crazy news, today I found out that she feels the same way about me, but she declined because she is actually seeing somebody at the moment, she hadn't told any of us...not even her closer friends.
Guess I'll have too see what happens.
Thanks again!
Woohoo! Not such a blow the self esteem then.
Don't forget though, there might be someone out there dreaming of you, C.T.