RE: adoption
well about bringing something new of myself and causing trouble, ....
I mean that , I am honest with my family, and I know that they need me a lot here, Iknow everything that we do is always done together, but is like everytime I want some space or some "peace" I cant get it. sometimes I feel that my family or the household business are "killing me".I feel a little tired of everything, we had a lot of changes in a short period of time, and we still need to keep doing things,maybe not big things, a lot of little things.
like it is never the right time when I want to change something about myself or my relationships with them.there is always something very important happening that will stop me from doing it.
health matters, and a few more things that I could PM you better.
about children again, I dont have any plans to have one soon because I dont even have a partner! hehe.but I´d love to be a good mother whenever I have one.
RE: adoption
Oh, I see. That's really too bad. I've been in situations like that before, and it is just awful. I used to feel like I was in a scary movie where the lead character tries to get away, but every time someone would grab their ankle at the last moment and pull them back. Not fun at all. I hope you're able to work things out so you can have more of a life for yourself. Sometimes you just have to stand up for yourself and your own needs; otherwise, if you don't, you'll become depleted and won't be of much help to your family anyway. Good luck!
Btw, I love your new avatar!! [sm=jump1.gif]