Here is what jonathon cainer has to say about venus in scorpio
http://www.cainer.com/venus/venussc.html
it makes interesting reading and I can identify with parts of it
tigress
Thank you tigress....
I nearly cried when I read this link. Espacially when I read this
You are recognising some undeniably persuasive pressures. Yet illogical and unreasonable though your deeper desires may be... you can't just close your eyes and make them go away. Nor, ideally, can you let them tear your life in two. So the Transit of Venus marks the arrival of a challenge. Somehow, you need to reconcile passion with practicality. You have to reach for a new dream without destroying an old accommodation. You have to do something for the sake of your sanity and self respect, even though it seems unlikely that this will gain you understanding, let alone approval. You are used to standing your ground and defending life's tougher, braver choices. But this is a big matter with big consequences. This is about what you do with most of your heart for the next few years. Or rather, what you allow your heart to do with you.
I know what this is about.... and it is making me feel terribly sad. I know I need to do something (concerning this matter) yet I also know I will not get approval or understandnig from this person, if anything it might make it worse talking to her yet I know I need to do it for my own self respect & sanity.
I can feel tears ... I better stop