Ahhhhaaaaaa but I wasn't retaliating though. I didn't realise I was doing anything. I thought I was being my normal self and I just noticed that he started to look afraid with eyes widening. I was a bit shocked and confused actually.
I mentioned that I had an unusual experience with the person and the other person who had met him said he found it difficult too.
My intuition tells me that he's a slightly timid and scared person and has maybe been walked over before or intimidated by people. I'm not sure why but that's what I think. I may be wrong.
No the other person said they were difficult as well.
This was their own personal experience.
I am sure they did. And the person involved probably is difficult and scary..... But you are still ALLOWING yourself to be antagonised. A reaction which does no good at all....because it gives control to the other person.......
You say you want THEM to feel what it is like to be antagonised. Why? To teach them a lesson? Revenge? To convince yourself you are not weak? WHY you do something is as important as WHAT you do.
Well I didn't deliberately set out to antagonise them. That's the thing. I just acted like my normal self and noticed the person looked fearful a few times. Not intentional.
But because I felt emotional pain in some ways I think it would be good if the other person felt that same pain because then they would realise how they hurt and effect others.
It may not be deliberate on their part but there must be a problem somewhere ?