Right I have a memory that was quite painful for me of an interaction between me and another individual. It keeps pulsing away in my mind & I can't clear it. I've heard that this means that the issue hasn't been dealt with completely. How does one heal this 🙂
And Crowan yes I know you are going to suggest a soul retrieval.
Maybe this is a sign and I should be doing it 🙂
Good call! 😉
Right guys. I want different people's answers to this.
Right I have a memory that was quite painful for me of an interaction between me and another individual. It keeps pulsing away in my mind & I can't clear it. I've heard that this means that the issue hasn't been dealt with completely. How does one heal this 🙂
And Crowan yes I know you are going to suggest a soul retrieval.
Maybe this is a sign and I should be doing it 🙂
It is the judgment that was placed upon the situation that is causing the inner divisional conflict, resolve the judgment and you regain your inner peace and balance. 🙂
It is the judgment that was placed upon the situation that is causing the inner divisional conflict, resolve the judgment and you regain your inner peace and balance. 🙂
What he said. One of the things shamanic work can help with is managing to shift that conflict.
When the painful memory crops up you say you are not dealing with it completely. Clearly then you are stuck in a thought pattern and can go no further. If you are unable to look at the situation differently, e.g. through your mother's eyes and see it from her perspective then, as Paul mentioned your judgement stops the progress.
I would suggest that you need some help in dealing with this unless what is said here is something you have not tried.
I see ,so it's my own judgement that's making me feel like this?
I've taken quite a bit of other peoples anger over the years similar to many people and I think I've repressed the emotions so sometimes I have angry, violent thoughts rise to the surface.
I've read it's best to own and feel these rather than ignore them and stuff them down. I find it a bit unerving. I've read a few techniques which can help, any other advice welcome.
I see ,so it's my own judgement that's making me feel like this?
I've taken quite a bit of other peoples anger over the years similar to many people and I think I've repressed the emotions so sometimes I have angry, violent thoughts rise to the surface.
I've read it's best to own and feel these rather than ignore them and stuff them down. I find it a bit unerving. I've read a few techniques which can help, any other advice welcome.
I think you may need help with this since you sound unable to gain insight from these situations. Have you thought about anger management for instance?
No not anger management. That could be interesting.
Talking to people is just that it's only talking to a person. Is this really effective ?
It's healing on a deep inner level we all want. I've realised now as you go through life, release as you go along.
I reckon a lot of people struggle with this.
Look how much stress there is in the world and in the workplace.
No not anger management. That could be interesting.
Talking to people is just that it's only talking to a person. Is this really effective ?
It's healing on a deep inner level we all want. I've realised now as you go through life, release as you go along.
I reckon a lot of people struggle with this.
Look how much stress there is in the world and in the workplace.
Do you not grasp that anger management is run by professional people who are qualified i.e. with knowledge about this issue that you keep bringing up? Not just talking to anyone.
Ah yes. I know anger management is a proper practice. It's just I wasn't thinking about doing it.
I'm fed up of the whole talking to people thing and I wanted to find other ways to express repressed anger because for me it sometimes crops up and if I'm honest I find it very unerving, upsetting and uncomfortable.
I might consider anger management now you have mentioned it.
In some ways I'm happy for the anger I've received because it's taught me what I've needed to learn and made me grow as a person.
Talking to you right now about this has really helped by the way.
Thank you <3
What about EFT?
I see ,so it's my own judgement that's making me feel like this?
Unfortunately what arises within self is what we orchestrate ourselves, obviously people doing things around us can only affect us if we choose to embrace it or judge it (it requires self judgment to place a judgment upon someone else).
I've taken quite a bit of other peoples anger over the years similar to many people and I think I've repressed the emotions so sometimes I have angry, violent thoughts rise to the surface.
We do not take other peoples emotion into self, we can emulate other peoples emotions which is what empaths do, so that we can gain a better understanding of what they are experiencing, but because we do not have the same trigger within us that is creating the emotional response within them, then we can sense and then let go.
It sounds like you have a judgmental tie trigger which you need to address and clear so that you no longer have angry and violent thoughts arising within you.
I've read it's best to own and feel these rather than ignore them and stuff them down. I find it a bit unerving. I've read a few techniques which can help, any other advice welcome.
Yes we are supposed to embrace and experience things as they occur, choose how we wish to experience it and then flow into the new one which is unfolding.
In some ways I'm happy for the anger I've received because it's taught me what I've needed to learn and made me grow as a person.
OK this is not the way we work, an emotional response is something only we can create within self, we think sad thoughts within our consciousness and our brain (the central processor of the body) sets about generating electro chemical responses within the body to correlate with the thought patterns, hence we think sad and feel sad, etc.
So what is a judgment tie? We set up a judgmental tie whenever we are not prepared to accept something which is an integral aspect of our life experience i.e. We experience something and instead of accepting the experience we choose to judge it to be wrong and try and reject it, burry it, try and ignore it and pretend that it did not happen, we have all been there and got the tee-shirt. 😉
When we look at this properly, all we are doing is rejecting self, we can be angry at the time and it goes as the experience ends, but if we choose to perceive self as wronged (self judgment) then we place a judgmental tie upon that aspect of our life experience and create inner divisional conflict until it is resolved.
To resolve an inner judgmental tie, requires us to own the tie, we need to allow the experience to be replayed within consciousness without any emotional responses (its a a bit like watching a television) we will also see the way we choose to react past the event, that is what need addressing, we need to change rejection into acceptance, accept the experience it is valid (we experienced it), choose to be happy to accept self within the experience, accept the experience as an experience and let it go. 🙂
Okay just trying to get my head around all of this. Thank you.
I see a lot of people holding onto these judgemental ties and feeling wronged. You see it everywhere you go.
I think for me I don't like these flooding thoughts coming in of these violent outbursts from people. I want to shut them out because it's weighing me down.
One thing I did find interesting was that when I did the same thing and was quite nasty back to these people I strangely felt better.
To me I think what I did was inappropriate but I did feel better so what is that all about?
I hope people don't think I'm horrible because of what I've said here. Not that I care what people think. 🙂
I see ,so it's my own judgement that's making me feel like this?
I've taken quite a bit of other peoples anger over the years similar to many people and I think I've repressed the emotions so sometimes I have angry, violent thoughts rise to the surface.
I've read it's best to own and feel these rather than ignore them and stuff them down. I find it a bit unerving. I've read a few techniques which can help, any other advice welcome.
I agree with Amy that you need help with this. May I ask why you do not want to try shamanism?