Just received a warning from a freind saying if you are a member of Ctha or Embody a pervert is contacting therapists asking for massage without underwear. She has been contacted twice today.
Why does that make them a pervert?
I prefer to be naked for a massage and will ask the therapist if they are ok with that...does that make me a pervert?
I don't do massage at all now but when I did had no problems doing people without underwear.
This is the norm in many countries.
Poor person...being branded a pervert.
Patchouli
Do you know I read that as the client was phoning to ask for the THERAPIST not to wear underwear! I feel a right idiot now. Having said that, there is a market for naturist massage isn't there? I vaguely remember seeing a thread about it not long ago. Not my cup of tea but.......whatever.
Anyway - I agree - I have had a few clients who prefer to be massaged sans pants. Not ever bothered me particularly. The bits that are not being treated are all covered up.
I had a message via my advert on gumtree (alas my only response), a gentleman asking if I would massage him whilst he is naked as he is a naturist (which isn't a problem) and without towels as he finds them irritating and distracting, well I would find it distracting without the towels!
It wouldn't bother me if they were naked underneath the towels, as already said they are covered up during the therapy.
Paula
Priceless!!:eek:
Personally I only massage clients if they are wearing full outdoor weather gear preferably Barbo*r Jackets and Trews because they absorb the oil so much better and maintain the dignity of the client and myself.
Now where was I.......oh yes looking for my damn pants:confused::rolleyes:
Pervert v. & n. a person who asks for a massage without underwear.
By the way was it a female asking?:o
Do you know I read that as the client was phoning to ask for the THERAPIST not to wear underwear! I feel a right idiot now.
You may be right! Yes Naturist massages tend to have both parties naked (perverts!?;))
Helps if posters explain clearly what they mean to say.
Sorry if I'm dense - but I'm not fully understanding what the problem is, and why this person is a 'pervert'. Every massage I've had I ask if I keep my underwear on, and the masseuse says that it's up to me. With the vary rare exception I opt for the no-underwear option. Most of them prefer it because it makes it easier for them.
Again, sorry that I'm not clear what the issue is. Maybe if you could explain why this person who wants a massage without underwear is a pervert it'd help me understand what the concern is.
Ava x
Just received a warning from a freind saying if you are a member of Ctha or Embody a pervert is contacting therapists asking for massage without underwear. She has been contacted twice today.
Oh! I'm very sorry about that. I'll avoid Ctha and Embody members on my next call. 😀
P.S. Guys, ever had a long-term relationship with someone who does some form of massage? I have ... and is it only me who never received one? :confused:
V
what I can never ever understand is why some people go into the massage business, but then find it offensive when their clients bare part of their skin!?!?
Why oh why do these people waste their money in training, and give decent therapists a bad reputation?!?!
Whatever next? Reflexology treatments with the client made to wear steel toe-capped boots!!
I had a call at 1.30 the other Saturday morning, the guy wanted a massage there and then and whatever else I could give him, now that's a perv 🙂
A friend of mine always takes his pants off AND wants a tummy massage AND it is VERY noticeable that he enjoys the massage, does annoy me a bit, as it gets in the way pmsl :), but he ain't a perv
and whether I am receiving a massage (as a massage addict) or giving one as an amateur nudity is best for the recipient at least. It enables a fuller, flowing massage. That does not mean that a good therapist cannot give a good masage while wielding the drapes but it is a legitimate enquiry. many therapists even insist on underclothes and drapes - talk about overkill !
and to repeat from above if you are into a profession that involves the body then it is a bit late to be embarrassed by the body.
The sad thing is, becuase of the pervert attitude above, it makes it very difficult when contacting a therapist to even dare to enquire as to their attitude to sartorial style without being labelled as a pervert for merely asking.
hey spiritual babe i hope you have not been put off by all the reactions above. We are all quite nice people really, and instead of the honest responses to you posting we should all be welcoming you to HP, but comments first, welcomes next !! I do hope you stick around
A friend of mine always takes his pants off AND wants a tummy massage AND it is VERY noticeable that he enjoys the massage, does annoy me a bit, as it gets in the way pmsl :), but he ain't a perv
JoJo2504 if it annoys you you need to have a word with your friend
P.S. Guys, ever had a long-term relationship with someone who does some form of massage? I have ... and is it only me who never received one? :confused:
V
My husband would empathise with you there V! He's always complaining he doesn't get to sample the goods.