RE: naturist massage
Many thanks for your PM Holistic, it is much appreciated.
Wendy
RE: naturist massage
ORIGINAL: SCORPIO
Thosewho were looking for extras would know where togo i can't see guys turning up at salons or therapy roomshoping to get lucky unless your number hasbeen advertised in an adult section of a local paper.
I can assure you that not everyone thinks just like you do, clients looking for extras are not hoping to get lucky, they are looking for a service they assume that is available, there is a huge difference between assuming the service is available and 'hoping to get lucky'. People don't got to the dentisthoping they can get lucky, people don't go to a massage therapist hoping to get lucky;some members of the general public are confused that "massage"means extras are available, it has absolutely nothing to do with 'hoping to get lucky'. There are many places presenting themselves as massage businesses where extras are available, many obvious ones that advertise in the adult section of a local paper, but there are more discrete ones, some people looking for extras will go to the obvious ones, some like the more discrete ones. It's only a minority that expect extras, and it's just that they are used to the other type of business masquerading as a massage business. I think you comments would probably be of more use on massage parlor review sites where they make disappointed comments that full service wasn't available, you could educate the people about where they need to go, rather than carry on about male bashing threads.
ORIGINAL: SCORPIO
I looked on your website,sorry i would gladly receive a sports massage from you but icertainly would not want to see you naked.
ORIGINAL: SCORPIO
it was meant to be a comment in a general term which i phrased badly
how can the original quotejustbe a general term phrased badly?!?SCORPIO, you don't phrase things poorly, don't use it as an excuse.
RE: naturist massage
Totally out of order Scorpio. Your personal comments are offensive and totally irrelevent.
Wendy.
We all get the occassional wierd one. Even as a male therapist I'm not immune.
RE: naturist massage
ORIGINAL: Aromababe
Scorpio - please see my response to you in the other thread.
[link= http://www.healthypages.net/forum/tm.asp?m=458981 ]http://www.healthypages.net/forum/tm.asp?m=458981[/link]I think that your post above is insulting to Wendy and irrelevant. As I said in the other thread, I've had some weird requests and often want to say 'Look, I'm a 47 year old mother of two grown up children, etc. etc., but these people aren't normal and I think get a kick out of making the phone call - not sure all of them would take it any further.
But these dodgy calls have nothing to do with what the therapist looks like or where they advertise. These people are just plain weird.
But they are in the minority and no-one is saying that all men are like that, but when, as a therapist, you get a call from a man you have never spoken to before, you have to be alert and aware of possible dangers.
Incidentally, in my experience, very few women use a therapist they've found in the Yellow Pages - they would far rather have a recommendation.
Lesley
Here here!!
Oh wish I never started this thread now 🙁
Anyway had to read what scorpio wrote twice as couldnt believe what i was reading.
I run a home salon and have said on here a few times the calls i get from men wanting extras (havent had any for a while now)
I dont advertise in any way that i do this so why do they call....it puts you off doing men.
Anyway scorpio i see you dont work as a therapist yourself why come on here to say these things and up set these people.
RE: naturist massage
Yes unfortunately bad phrasing from Scorpio but yes he does have a point, the majority of males requiring a massage are genuine and cause no offence to anyone, yes you do get requests from people of both sexes but that should not be used as a yard stick for everyone.
There is no easy answer for those who are not looking for a proper massage, there is no failsafe way of advertising and short of having a bullmastive sat in the corner we all have to deal with them, but please don't get paranoid about everyone, massage is good and most people enjoy it for it therapeutic benefits 🙂
RE: naturist massage
Hi! I've had many naturist massages, where the massuse and myself are both naked, including from Julie, who has posted previously. They are by far thebest massages you can have. Complete freedom for the massuse to do head to toe strokes, you don't get itchy or ticklish from the towels, the massuse doesn't have to keep re-arranging them and spoil the flow, and from the massuses aspect, she doesn't get to hot, and she has much more freedom without her clothes dragging. Of course, as a naturist, me being nude is quite natural, so maybe I'm being a bit blasé about it.
RE: naturist massage
Hiyas Robbie, welcome to HP.
As some1 who believes in the Naturist philosophies & way of life, I can understand about theblasé aspect of your comment. LOL
RE: naturist massage
ORIGINAL: robbieinessex
from the massuses aspect, she doesn't get to hot, and she has much more freedom without her clothes dragging.
if I am massaging someone, I dont get too hot and I don't have clothes dragging.
Personally, if I am on the table, I hate being hit by a droopy breast, they're so cold, it's like being hit by a cold fish, very disruptive to the flow of the massage.I've experienced more males with no top on dripping sweat while massaging me than males fully clothed where their top tends to catch the drips. I would much rather have the therapist keeping theirbody partsand/or sweat to themselves, and clothing usually helps keep it under control.
RE: naturist massage
I had a treatment recently- a body scrub and told the therapist she did not need to hold the towell up so she did not see me every time I turned over. I also had to put on a pair of disposable briefs. She said health and safety regulations deem all of it but I think in theory she agreed with me (she told me a quiet beach where I could skinny dip at night!) I have also had a few recent massages where I was totally naked and it was bliss to be unencumbered by towels, briefs or trying to move around without the masseur seeing my breasts. I was fine with it and he was too. After all that women go through in pregnancy and childbirth I would not think it would bother most to be seen naked by aprofessional in another field. My nude massage was done by a masseur wearing shorts only - seemed practical to me as he was also covered with oil as he uses his whole body and not just his hands. Any professional learns how to control possible feelings of attraction by breathing. Also they see the body as a piece of machinery and the beauty of the person as that within the body. I don't think a naturist masseur would bother me, but as masseurs often work in unconventional positions I am not sure I would want his/her butt in my face! If we knock openmindedness before we have tried it, then we will never find out how we feel in the event.
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I'm a Naturist at heart, due to personal circumstances, I'm not able to live the Naturist lifestyles in this property, but I do think that Nudist/Naturism should not be a problem, when it comes to having a Massage, as long as the Client & the Therapist both agree to it, then there shouldn't be any problems.
However, on reading your post, which made me laugh, I am a lil confused. I know we can work in unusual positions to massage our clients, but what type of position/routine would you be doing, to have your butt almost shoved in your clients face? [8D]
RE: naturist massage
ORIGINAL: DazSnake
I know we can work in unusual positions to massage our clients, but what type of position/routine would you be doing, to have your butt almost shoved in your clients face? [8D]
I can think of two reasons
1 - an advanced naturist yoga massage, or
2 - taking customer care to the next level i.e. literally bending over backwards to serve your client!
derekw
RE: naturist massage
ORIGINAL: DazSnake
>>>>>when it comes to having a Massage, as long as the Client & the Therapist both agree to it, then there shouldn't be any problems.>>>>>>
As I said, being hit by a droopy breast is most distracting in a treatment, it is a problem, I've experienced it a few times, I am not interested in experiencing it again, it disrupts the flow of the massage a LOT. Everyone carries on abouthow no draping just makes the flow so much easier, being hit with a droopy breast undoes that sooooooooo quickly. It's not because I have hang ups about being hit by a breast, they're a lot colder than someone's hands, it's the temperature contrast that is the shock, just like being hit by a cold fish.
Sweaty therapists is another problem if you don't like sweat being dripped on you, I'm sure some people don't mind it, but some people find other people's sweat dripping on them a bit of a ewwwww moment. A therapist with a top on at least the top catches the sweat.
Traditional swedish massage I can't imagine someone's butt gets in your face, but some lomi lomi moves and anything where the therapist is putting their knee under the shoulder, it happens, I'm sure there are more modalities where it's possible.
RE: naturist massage
ORIGINAL: DazSnake
>>>>>>>>>when it comes to having a Massage, as long as the Client & the Therapist both agree to it, then there shouldn't be any problems.
Horses for courses I guess. My client base consists of both naturist and 'textiles'. I don't have a proplem massaging in the nude whether the client is male or female. I do prefer massaging a nude client orusing the minimal draping (Lomi Lomi style) as the long body strokes gives the treatment a more intigrated feel.
Receiving a massage I prefer to be nude. Whether the therapist is nude or not makes no difference. I can't say I've experienced 'wet fish' yet!
RE: naturist massage
I had a massage, done on a mattress on the floor and the masseur was behind me head and shoulders - me on my front - thus at one point as he went down my front his butt was almost on my face, and I turned my face sideways. If he had not had shorts on - well not sure how I would have felt - was not sure I wanted my face in his bum! However, it was a great massage so I said nothing!
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..... meant to say me on my back - front uppermost!