RE: Positive thoughts for me please
Poppit does the school governers know anything about whats going on and that she was escorted outof the other school ?. Might be worth finding out who they are and liasing with them.
I can empathise with you, I too was bullied for 7 yrs on and off and I too are disabled. Very difficult when your job is on the line to do anything. I for one challenged my boss one day and accused her of bullying. I told hershe always has to have someone to bully (the last one she bullied left I was the next!)of course denied it and for a few weeks she was better. But it continued at times.
She has now retired and staff in general are happier.
Can your Gp support you in applying for early retirement through ill health?. Maybe worth a try.
RE: Positive thoughts for me please
I think doing the unexpected is a good way of breaking old patterns of behaviour; so I wonder if you could consider, every time you think of this woman, sending her your sincere intentions for her happiness? My experience with bullies is it's a way of shoring themselves up; inside they don't know what it's like to be respected and loved.
That will feel alot better for you, for a start; every time you think something about her right now you'll probably be feeling angry or anxious etc. - all stressful to you. So send her, the union rep, and anyone else your love and blessings for a good meeting; run it in your mind, and see it going well; and keep yourself safe from any negative feelings as far as you can.
I'm sending you love, positive thoughts and best wishes! I see your parking space, and see you doing your job calmly and happily again...
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Jacquie B thank you for your kind thoughts. 🙂
caringsoul - we have two members of the teaching staff on the Governors who have tried to tell the rest of the Governors what is going on but they just don't want to listen - I think maybe they don't want to admit they've made a mistake in employing her. I'm sorry to hear you have been bulllied at work also, it must be better for you now the bully has left. I don't think I would get early retirement because hopefully when I have my knee replacement operation it will mean I will be able to get about better and be in a lot less pain. I only have to put up with with for another 3 years - doesn't sound too long if I say it quick!!!;)
creativejani1 - I have been sending Reiki to the situation and trying not to think of her in a bad way but it is difficult. I'm just hoping she will realise what she's doing is wrong after the Personnel officer has spoken to her. Thanks for your positive thoughts. 🙂
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Will be thinking of you tomorrow. Let us know how you get on .....
June
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you will be in my thoughts too,
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