Hi all,
I seperated from my son's dad back in July last year and he was with someone else after only a month, got engaged to her and they are having a handfasting at Beltaine. I have been through the whole greiving process and all the emotions that go with it, and feel that I am almost there but just need a little help with that final letting go. I have been trying really hard to put my emotions to one side for the sake of my son & his relationship with his dad, and so that my son feels that it is OK for him to like his daddy's girlfriend. I have to say that it is emotionally draining to have to hear about it all from my son when he comes back from his weekend at daddy's house with the girlfriend there, and to hear that they have been doing family things together and going to places that we used to go to as a family.
I have decided to move away to have a fresh start, and be closer to my parents for a little extra support now that I am a single mum. I am aiming for the easter holidays, so that myself and my son can be somewhere fresh, starting a new life and where hopefully i won't feel so bothered when the handfasting happens.
I would love some healing thoughts to be sent my way to enable me to really wish my ex love and happiness for his future with his girlfriend, and to allow me to let it all go and not to be affected by the situation at all. Also any positive thoughts for the best possible outcome for myself and my son regarding our move would also be greatly appreciated!
Thanks
Mandie
Hi Mandie sending a big Reiki hug just for you and some Reiki healing to the situation.
It is a very hard situation to be in. Be kind to yourself and I really admire how you are handling things. I wish I had been as grounded as you when I was in your situation but I wasnt really if I'm honest and my daughter's relationship with her dad fizzled out and I often wonder if I had been more accepting of the situation all those years ago would it be different today.
I now have three step children and am very concious of how their mum must feel after a weekend at ours.
It is very difficult for us to put our hurt and disappointments aside but when your son is older you will really thank yourself for your wisdom.
Wishing you well with your move and new start.
Love and Light
Linda
Hi Mandie, have another big Reiki hug from me too. I have only admiration for how you are handling a very difficult situation. It must be so painful to hear your son sounding happy with the new set up but you are being a wonderful mum and allowing him to be able to feel this way. Sending much love to you and your son and Reiki energy to the situation. Good luck with your new future.
Love and light
reikiangel
xxx
Thank you both for your replies & reiki hugs! When I read your posts I could feel energy around me so thank you. xxx
Hi,Mandie. I am sending positive vibes & lots of love to everyone involved. What a great Mum - your son will be really proud of you.
Take care, Yvonne xxx