Hi guys I am asking for healing for my son he is facing a horrid situation at work he has been suspended pending an investigation for something that has been blown out of proportion. He suffers with depression and his work and work mates are very important to him. He was very close to doing something silly last night. We are trying to suport him but he is very shocked and frightend.
Thanks
RE: for my son
Hi Somerset, So sorry to hear about this. I am a staff rep at work and see this type of thing all the while. What is'nt always known is the effect it has on the individual whilst sitting at home waiting for his/her fate. We have had a guy suspended since before Christmas and he feels really bad.
Try to get your son to get a good staff rep (if in a union) or a work colleague to help. Often easier said than done as bad firms like to rule on an atmosphere of fear and thus control.
Thinking of him, and you and hope for a positive outcome.
Luv Windy x
ps if I can help send me a pm. x
RE: for my son
Hi there
My sister is a Human Resources Specialist dealing with Employment Law and a Life Coach, if you need help or ideas please PM me and I can give you her details. I am sure she won't mind you sending her an email if you give her the details of the situation and she can talk you through what can be done step by step. ACAS may need to be involved depending upon the circumstances of course but yes get a member from the HR department who has either employment law experience or an employment solicitor (1st hour advice free) and get some help. As long as he knows you are there to support him he will be fine, just needs to be strong. I was bullied at my last place of work by a female - a jealousy thing - I left...........I was pregnant at the time whilst she was bullying me and I was constantly in tears, the boss our mutual boss did not want to know - took her side and still to this day I do not know what the problem was - I complained to HR - they did not want to know, I had no support.........I left and found something better - these therapies !! Be strong for him and he will come through this........as long as he knows he has done nothing wrong he will be fine...........
Take care and I send you my best wishes.
RE: for my son
Thanks guys Ian is not in the union oh how I have begged him to join however he does have a freind who was a union rep who is giving him support. He is so open and this is an honest mistake it has taken the trust nearly a year to discover they made a mistake in his overtime payment. How many of us look that closly at our payslip.
thanks TG I have PM you. You cant help but worry he lives on his own but with a great dog!
RE: for my son
Sending your son lots of love and Reiki energy to help him keep strong during this worrying time. Also a big Reiki hug to you too as I know how worried you are for him.
Love and light
reikiangel
xxx