So sorry to read about Angel's dad, although terrible at any time it is felt more keenly at this time of year when it feels the whole world is celebrating ( I lost a grandmother one Christmas Eve).
Sending much love to all those who loved him and healing Reiki energy to help them cope with their loss.
Love and light
reikiangel
xxx
Sending love to Angel and her family. May you remember all the wonderful times you have had and see them as blessings
With love
Jill
Love and prayers for Angel and her family xxx
Hey everyone
I've just come across this post so forgive me for been late. Thank you Crystal_rose for asking prayers for me and my family, at least I know where the help and strength as come from now.
My dad passed away on the 13th (nearly 2 weeks ago). He had been poorly and was suffering from dreaful stomach pains which the doctors could not find a cause for. I had a feeling he was going to leave us a few days before he actually passed and I had a word with his Angels. A few hours before his passing, we had the most wonderful conversation, he told me he couldn't hang on any longer and wanted me (and the rest of my family) to let him go. I told him it was okay and to tell his Angels he was ready. He promised he would come and let me know he was okay afterwards.
Dad had an unsettled evening, one of the nurses looking after him asked me why I wasn't leaving him when visiting hours were over, she said, "It's like you are waiting for him to die and he is not going to die. You been here is making him very unsettled." So my family and I went home. We got the call a few hours later to say he had gone.
It's been hard, the doctor wouldn't give us a death certificate and Dad had to be referred to a coronor and have a post mortem done, but no explination could be given to why he died, so now an inquest has been opened.
We managed to have the funeral a couple of days ago, to be honest, I still think dad is still around, it's like he hasn't passed.....I don't think I quite believe it and it's making me feel guilty because I haven't grieved. My dad was my world and I loved him so much, so why hasn't the tears come?
Anyhow......thank you all for the prayers, they are much appreciated.
Angel xxx
Dear Angel
I'm so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. I have lost count of how many times I have been told that a dear one has departed once the family has left. The reason for this (I believe) is the energy of the family is too strong and keeps them here, and as soon as the family leave then the soul has the opportunity to leave, unrestricted.
Dad IS still around you I'm sure. Love never dies. The 'overcoat' dad was wearing has gone but his energy will always be with you. Don't worry about not shedding tears, they will come if and when you feel the need to shed them. Remember all the loving things your dad and you have shared and keep those good memories to the front of your mind so that whenever you miss him you have them to recall.
Sending you and your family much love and reiki energy to help you all through this very sad time.
Love and light
reikiangel
xxx