I'm in nosy mode tonight, and was wondering:
If you have/had received a reading that was negative in its outcome, or the answer you was hoping not to hear, do you:
a) worry, resign yourself to your fate and allow for events to unfold
OR
b) worry, but take it as a positive thing that forewarned is forearmed and take action
The reason why i ask is my horoscope for this week was doom and gloom, which was further reinforced by the 10 of Swords being my card o' the week-suggesting double doooooooooommmmmmmm!:eek:
While i have spent the week in a mild state of anxiety wondering what on earth will happen,:o i have taken the card as 'option b' .
Warmest wishes- calla lily x
I think that even when we do have a card reading or whatever it is it is disheartening when we hear something we dont like, but i always think that i have free will to change things. The future to me isnt yet set in stone. Like the saying goes Life is like a game of cards. Determinism is the hand you're dealt, free will is how you play it."
Also i enjoy to read my horoscopes but then again remember every leo, or every libra will not experience the same type of day or month, there is so much detail that goes into doing astrology than meets the eye, and for you specifically it would be done using the exact time of your birth. So the extent to which you worry, dwell on the horoscopes or a reading is up to you. But i wouldnt!!!
Thanks for your reply Reiki_Yorks, i agree with your views, both of readings and horoscopes. 🙂 I'm one of life's worriers anyway ( typical Capricorn!:o) and for complete contrast to the ten of swords, my monthly card is the nine of cups.:D
Warmest wishes- calla lily x
I had a reading about a year ago who told me that I shouldn't be with my current partner. Which I decided to take note of, see what could be improved and see how it goes. I've had another reading who had a similar thought and I must admit although I am quite happy just now, it does make me wonder long term and that's something that I wonder if it's just cos I had the reading I'm more aware of it or if it's something I'd be aware of anyway...??
I do tend to take it as yeah, thanks for the info but I'll see what happens from here!
Hiya
I agree that I feel that the future isnt pre-destined as such. I do think that some things we have to experience but how we get there, and how we choose to react etc is up to us and free-will.
So like with a 'negative' reading you have the power to change it. There is also that blessing in disguise and darkest hour before the dawn that we don't see until after the event. Like if I was reading 10 of swords, it would be all the doom and gloom and sudden endings, but then that leaves you free to start over, a case of 'ok that didnt work lets try plan b' and it could be the plan b that leads you to the 9 of cups 🙂