kath
RE: was i right over reading
I think you were definitely right to say something. Did she tell your daughter that the information she was relaying to her was what you had previously told her?
I hope she didn't charge your daughter for the reading!
RE: was i right over reading
I never know what is the right thing to do when a reading is disappointing.
Readers often ask for feedback, they ask you to be open and honest, and I do try to be, and I try to put it in as constructive a way as I can, although it's sometimes hard to say "nope, that didn't relate to me at all" in a positive way! Many readers do readily accept the feedback, but I've had quite nasty responses from readers where I didn't say everything was wonderful. Usually the gist of the response is that it's my fault for being so closed, I didn't make myself open to them so they had difficulty in reading me, or along the lines of how my mind is too closed and I must be open to the messages. Thing is, I'm very open (a friend of mine who does readings says I'm one of the easiest people she's had to read) but if someone is predicting that that is physically impossible for me, it ain't gonna happen!
My view is that if the reading falls short of the mark for you, then you should provide feedback accordingly, in the same way as if it really hits the spot for you then you'd provide feedback. I have just learnt to be prepared when that feedback isn't accepted in the spirit in which it was intended.
I'll be interested to see how some readers here think feedback should be handled.
With love,
Amber
RE: was i right over reading
Hi Kath
Can your daughter ask for another reading from her (Free of charge).
Sometimes the cardsgive youconfirmation of whatthe reader already knows about you, but there should have been some new information too.
If the reader was having an off day then she should have informed your daughter and asked to do another reading at a later date.
I've given afewvague readings but if you don't get any feedback you really can't help. If I was aware I'd given a vague/dud reading I would hope they would come back to me so I could try again. Although sometimes cards are not meant to be read.
Take care, healing thoughts are sent to you
Whiteroom
kath