.......how common is it do you think? Also, how bad for you is it?..& I'm not just thinking £'s either but having said that phone lines ect would thrive from people who seek answers from a 'fortune teller'[&:]
I'm aware (not just here...but everywhere) that there seems to be people who seem to thrive on readings and seek a reading at every opertunity they get...how good for you can that be?? Surley it's a bad 'habit' to have, the best thing that a person needs to do is to learn to follow their own intuition & listen to their own heart surley!
Also...another thought, those people that do jump from one reading to the next..why do they do it..do they just take from a reading that tells them 'good' things & disgregard any warning that a reading may offer? Do they always feel like they need reasurance?
What really worries me IS the whole business side but also the thing about people looking for answers elswhere all the time...OK a reading now & then is neither here nor there..but to always want them or seek them...that can;t be good....can it?...well..unless you're the one doing them for a living:D:D
Am I even a reading junkie:eek:?
Love
Amy
xxx
RE: Addicted to Readings.....
Hee hee, yes you are right. My feelings are that the people that are in constant need for different readings are not grounded and able to see for themselves anymore. They need to sit quietly and ask for guidance within. It will come to them BUT will they believe it is the question.
It is always fun to get a reading and give one!
But when it becomes a need to receive then one needs to take a break and look at what is happening and the pattern in which it is progressing in.
Food for thought;
Lightningstar xxx
RE: Addicted to Readings.....
A very good point and something I've been considering also. I think that there are people who will request a reading from every single person who offers which is not good, cos a) should let others have a chance b) the readings are not helping them as such,otherwise they would not need to keep on asking and asking.
I read somewhere that after 3 readings on the same subject, the cards just start to tell you what you WANT to hear anyway rather than what you need to hear.
Perhaps this is the reason people will get reading after reading, in the hope that at least one of them will give them the validation they need to hear.
Now I love getting a reading every so often and a few give different perspectives which can be interesting but at the end of the time, the answers lie within, all the cards can do is offer some insight, some objectivity on the subject, and are only beneficial if one is willing to take into consideration what issues have come up. I record all my readings and go back to them at later dates to see what my thoughts on them are after time has passed, and find this a very useful learning process!
RE: Addicted to Readings.....
I too agree
I also think that some are just mesmerised by those able to give readings & enjoy what they have to say.
I do think that, some will seek messages until they 'hear what they want' rather than 'what is needed'. We get this in our Spiritualist church too.
It's difficult as some really want a message from a certain person, but this is not always possible, however they will continue on their quest for this so happy to keep posting.
I do believe that if they are in the right place, right time for a message it will come to them.
Personally, I need to practice ! - so when I get the courage I will be posting to see if anyone wants a reading, so for me, it will be great if people want them and give good feedback.
Love & Lightness
RE: Addicted to Readings.....
This reminds me of a conversation I had with a friend who has had psychic readings before. She started by telling me that she didn't know what to do with her life. Then she said she will go to see a psychic. I thought it was odd and suggested a life coach because a psychic would only tell her what her future was and not how to get there (or even how to go about working out how to get there unless she was a life coach!), and that as the psychic would be telling her the future based on her decisions made now, whatever she was doing now and decided now whether it was doing something or nothing would result in that future anyway.:D